Your reasoning is flawed though as I didn't say open up without restrictions. I say open everything but with restrictions. I don't like mask mandates but I'm fine if a business wants to require them. I would even be okay with asking all people to wear masks. What I'm saying is that we should allow people to go to stadiums if they want, go to bars if they want (although there should be distancing involved and not squeezing at the bar), allow people to have house parties.
Then the same people who are taking part in riskier behavior will wear masks and socially distance in public. Assuming masks and social distancing work then this shouldn't be a problem.