You're not "getting it"...
There are a wide variety of passes and uses for them. If a group comes to WDW with an autistic child who can't wait in lines due to the crowds or the time spent in line, that child likely also can't wait for lengths of time while the group waits for rides. Disney quite rightly allows the group a break to be able to do other things while still allowing them to respect the restrictions of the special-needs child that's with them. Each situation can be addressed by use of the different types of GAC, there is no hard and fast rule for GACs - They can be extremely different from guest to guest. The idea is that Disney is assisting people with special needs in accordance with their needs.
You can't possibly know what the circumstances are that warranted the issuance of the GAC. Therefore you shouldn't try to judge whether the GAC is being "abused". First, it's none of your business and second Disney has been doing this for years... They actually have it down to a science.
Yes, it is possible for unscrupulous guests to abuse the GAC system. The same as the wheelchairs and ECVs and any other system that expects honour from people. But the other side of that coin is the unfair expectation you seem to have that every disabled or disadvantaged individual should have to explain their plight in graphic detail to every arrogant snob that thinks anyone who receives a GAC should personally justify every benefit they get to them.
THANK YOU!!!
This is one thing I am so sick of reading on this board. It is so EASY for those on the outside looking in to say what everyone else should be doing or allowed to do. Just like you said, an autistic child that can't comprehend why the line just "Isn't moving" won't understand why they are sitting with grandma outside for 65min without moving or DOING something that long. I know. We deal with that every trip. They just don't understand. They aren't being spoiled and there is a difference. A spoiled child knows and just doesn't want to do. When you are dealing with a child that just doesn't understand, it's like you are truly breaking their hearts and holding them captive. To them, they are being punished for doing nothing wrong. Does that mean the parents cant do anything else? No. My son is almost 6 and people expect him to understand like a 6yr old. He doesn't. He doesn't understand time like you or I. With all of the stimulation he gets from the world, 5min is like 45 LONG, LOUD min.
I remember a trip before we knew about the GAC card. We were taking him on Peter Pan, I think. He wound up "melting" down because he just couldn't understand why we were walking back and forth(queue went left to right several times) and stopping when the ride was RIGHT THERE. He ended up being so overstimulated and so overwhelmed, he wore himself out and passed out from the exhaustion( in my arms and 35lbs of deadsleeping child is HEAVY in a 45min queue, let me tell ya). He ended up sleeping through the ride. Every time the queue turned away from the loading platform, it was torture. He just didn't GET why we were walking away from the ride. Most kids his age would understand the lines moves. Autism is very hard to deal with.
Like I said and the other poster said, without the child, the pass is just a fastpass, not an alt. entrance pass. For example, TSMM. At TSMM, with my son, we get to split off the fastpass lane to the HC loading area. If my son wasn't riding with us, we would get to that split point and continue with the other fast pass people and wait out that last 30min or so with the regular line guests. At haunted mansion, my son goes in through the exit to the secret hallway(we carry him). Without him, we would go into the fastpass line.
I get so sick of reading people posting about what the disabled community get or don't get, how we inconvienance you, how we are in your way. Once you've realized how hurtful your statements are, then some of you try backpedaling a little bit but it doesn't take the sting away. When I'm at the park with my son, I see some of you giving us the stink eye because we load a bus first and it just burns you that my husband and two other kids get to get on, too. You give me dirty looks when we use his GAC card as a fast pass for 1 or 2 rides not realizing I just left my child screaming with his dad or gma.
I want to enjoy a ride, too, and Disney understands that. It's not "abuse" for a party to use the GAC as it was intended. Simple as that. That poster didn't say they left the child at a hotel while they ran around with the pass. They didn't say they rode over and over again for 2hrs while the child sat in on a hot bench.