first off- my opinion on the size issue..... Disney World has quantity, Disneyland has quality. Yes I'm biased because I grew up with Disneyland, and didn't go to WDW until last fall for my CP- but I was disappointed with quite a few things as far as quality goes. You will absolutely love DL, and even though DCA isn't exactly up to par with DL or the MK, it's still a decent park. There are some fun things to do, but you can get it done in a day.
In my opinion, dining isn't better at DLR or WDW- they both have their good and bad locations. Here are my favorites around the resort, but again, just my opinions! If you're in the parks, I've found that DCA has the better variety of counter service locations....
DL-
*Plaza Inn- my absolute favorite!! on the end of Main Street on your right hand side right before you enter Tomorrowland
*French Market in NO square- I think NO is pretty accurately themed, but then again, never lived there so you'll have to let us know!
*Blue Bayou- make sure to get reservations early
*Dole Whip Stands- just as good as WDWs
DCA-
*Pacific Wharf Cafe- cross the bridge over the pond area across from the wine places
*mexican grill- (don't remember the exact name, but right next to the Pacific Wharf cafe)
*Catch-A-flave- on the end of the boardwalk on the way to Ariel's Grotto (the restaurant, not the M&G location)- has
really good ice cream
*Farmer's market- near Bug's Life area-has the standard chicken strips
*Taste Pilot's Grill (by Soarin' Over California)-new one I tried a few weeks ago- the only place I'll get burgers in the parks
*Schmoozies- fantastic smoothies, in the Hollywood Backlot area
DD-
*La Brea bakery-light lunch or snack-on your right hand side before you exit DD and go through the bag check to get back into the parks.
*Tortilla Jo's- good mexican food
* Rainforest Cafe- same as any other RC. some love it, others hate it
DL Hotel-
*Goofy's Kitchen- best character dining (good food
and good character interaction- because it's rare to get both!) in my opinion, with Liberty Tree Tavern at WDW coming in close 2nd. very good mix of characters- usually Goofy, Minnie, chip & dale, and two faces. Sometimes very random characters instead of those four though, and quite common to see Alice and the Mad Hatter-always hilarious!
*Steakhouse 55- fancier and great for couples, although I've seen huge families and kids in there before
As for the Disneyland hotel itself, I stayed there when I was in high school and our student council went to a convention over there-From what I remember, it was nice, but not overly fancy or anything. Like others have said, it's nothing to write home about, but it's by no means a dumpy hotel. Not comparable to the Grand Californian or the Contemp, but it all depends on how important the hotel is to you. For me personally, I don't care much about the hotel because I don't spend much time in it- I like it to be within walking distance of the park- but there are plenty of non-disney hotels that are. I know that for some people though, the hotel is a main part of their "disney experience" so...?
whew.... hopefully that all helps! And now I think I'll go look at my calendar and plan the next time I can get over there- I think I miss it just a little bit..
