My 5 year old son has been to the following character meals (while he was 5) and loved them:
O'hana - Stitch, Lilo, Mickey, Pluto
Crystal Palace - Pooh, etc as stated above
Hollywood & Vine - Playhouse Disney characters
1900 Park Fare - Cinderella, Prince Charming and Steps (he didn't like the Stepmother that much, as she is a "bad person" to him.)
Askeshus - Belle, Sleeping Beauty, Mulan, Jasmine
Some people don't think boys should "like" princesses, but my DH likes to say, "I think it's great that my son wants to meet a beautiful blonde/red head/ etc.!" :ROFLOL:
To be honest, he doesn't really like them that much, he just loves meeting them as much as he would any Disney character.
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