Sbkline, I totally get you. Let me say that first. I think we are very alike in that simple-minded people who don't think for themselves are generally sorta irritating. I feel ya there. Truly. And I assure you, what you describe as a simple "black and white" person is something I certainly am not. I've always chosen the most difficult paths in life by avoiding black or white. It's my special knack, I guess. When it comes to something like "pool hopping" or other such non-life-threatening or trivial things where there's no imminent danger or real necessity for me to behave or do something outside of what has been clearly specified as the correct way to do something then I just don't. Hence, if one of my kids was hurt I would speed. If I was written a ticket for it then that's fine. And when I was in very active labor with my 2nd baby and had a 4 hour drive to the hospital you better believe the hubby had our little car flying. However, when it comes to hotel amenities or things of that nature that I want for myself or my family, if I want something bad enough then I do what I need to the right way to get what it is that I want because there's no reason for me to break a rule other than at that moment I-want-what-I-want-when-I-want-it.
An analogy I could use to illustrate my point in the extreme sense as with yours with the "stay in the house rule" would be speeding. If I'm driving down the highway late at night and there's no other cars on the road, would it be just ducky for me to drive my car as fast as I want to? ((Which for me is extremely fast considering when I learned to drive I learned to race and I wasn't one to lose...
)) So now I'm zipping along down the highway running in excess of 140 mph, would it be wrong for a police officer to cite me for breaking the speed limit or haul my hiney to jail for reckless operation? Nobody else was there. I wasn't bothering anyone. I wasn't impeding other drivers' safety at the time. Why should I be required to follow the speed limit? I'd imagine it's because if
every driver decided that late at night when there was barely any other cars on the highway it was okay to open up Ol' Bessie and see what she can do then there
would be a problem. So I choose to behave and not get crazy speeding even when it would be tremendous fun for me or accept the consequences of my lead foot getting the better of me. Do I speed? Yes. Do I expect that to be okay (with the exception of an emergency situation)? No. In the end, I wouldn't think less of the police officers who are doing their job by giving me a ticket and I wouldn't think less of my fellow motorists if they chose not to speed. And if I really wanted to see how fast I could make my car go (I got a new one last week...I really have to fight this temptation right now..:lol
I know that I can go to facilities equipped for that. It just has to become something I want bad enough to shell out the bucks to do. Buuut, if one of the kids was hurt and needed to go to the hospital in a hurry and it was a situation that couldn't wait for the ambulance to get here you better believe I'd have 'em in the car bleedin' or pukin' on the new leather racing down the road to the hospital. :animwink:
Again, I'm not saying I
agree with Disney completely forbidding pool hopping. I imagine they could set pool hopping "seasons" where during slower periods or during cooler months it could be an okay thing. I've actually given thought to the not-as-obvious reasons why they would say it's a no-no aside from the possibility of overcrowding. Keeping in mind that most decisions made by a business are financially driven or influenced, if pool hopping and/or other deluxe amenities were available to any resort guest who happens along why would people spend 4 or more times the amount of a value resort to stay in a deluxe? The rooms are bigger and decorated up different but the amenities are something Disney really pushes through their resort categorizing. The anti-pool-hopping rule may be more of a business decision to try to keep the more sought after pools as an exclusive perk so they can offer that as part of the "bait" to lure folks into spending what it takes to obtain them. Again, not saying that I 100% agree 100% of the time just because Disney said so thus it must be the only way. ((See??? I'm not a simple little black-n-white girl..I prefer pink!
)) I'm just saying that there's some logic in what they're doing from a business stand point. And as I explained before, unless there's some really, really pressing reason for me to go against what the guidelines or rules are I just don't see going out of my way to do it.
Yep, I'm still a "rules is rules" gal
with common sense applied. ((I'm antagonistic, too! :lol
) Unless doing what I'm supposed to will cause harm to someone somehow or have some very pressing emergency-ish related reason, yep, I'm behaving. I don't carry a blinking sign around announcing that eeeeveryone should follow me because I know the right way. I don't profess to be perfect, have all the answers, or be free of all imperfections or infractions. I don't seek out wrongdoers on a regular basis so I can point out their transgressions (that part early in this thread really was a joke) nor do I seek authority-figures so I can point out how good I've been. I can accept the concept that rules, laws, guidelines, etc. in general (not just at WDW) are put in place for reasons I'm not always going to be aware of because I'm not the expert on everything in life.
I think my way of viewing this stuff is strongly rooted in the years I worked in law enforcement communications. Questioning stuff could get people killed. I know it's another extreme example for "rules is rules" but I lived by the SOPs long before I understood them because I had to. Later down the road when I had girls working for me that questioned my instruction it would floor me. Case in point (so I don't come off as a total heifer), 5:00 a.m. one morning I was delegating the last of my shifts' duties before shift change. Our newest shift member was a young girl who had only been working with us for a week; that's
one week of the 12+ weeks it took to get the
basic functions of the job we did. I asked this girl to take care of washing up the dishes in the kitchen sink. During our shifts we did not have the luxury of set meal breaks. We relieved each other's positions as we could long enough to warm something and bring it back to our work stations. The girl was insulted that I would ask her that, told me she didn't dirty them so she wouldn't wash them, and felt I was picking on her because she was new. Yes, I could see why she would think that. After all, she'd only been there a week and didn't know what I did. So I sat down next to her and explained to her why she, of the 7 people in the building at the time, was my best choice for that task. I asked her what she would do if one of the two ladies I had working the radio channels dispatching suddenly threw up or fainted. What if we had a patrol unit set off his emergency alarm? What if one of our units was suddenly shot? What if a detective was out with a fugitive asking for NCIC info over the radio? What if a sudden catastrophic event took place and every one of our 911 lines lit up all at the same time? I told her to think of the worst possible thing that could happen and tell me how she would handle it to which she had no other response besides "I don't know". And my response was that as the person in charge I could not justify sending a person who not only could answer all those questions without hesitation, they could do what needed to be done in a split second without wasting time questioning what they were doing or why. If I was going to have just 6 people available to answer a call for help or handle an emergency I needed all 6 to be able to do the job. It was in the best interest of public safety that she be the one out of the seven to wash dishes for the shift. Period. She didn't know that when she refused and wanted to get all lippy with me but she understood when I explained the why's that she couldn't fathom. In the world I lived in it was absolutely without a doubt 110% required that when instruction was given by authority above me that I did not question even when it was something as menial as washing dishes (which I did plenty of). It was much like the military. A lot of the inconsequential to-dos were every bit as important as the ones that dictated life and death. Every task had to be carried out immediately unless specified otherwise
without question in order to create and form a behavior or habit of instant compliance because when the poo-hit-the-fan there couldn't be time wasted thinking or questioning. That's how people die. And if someone died on my shift it was
my hiney as the shift leader that was held responsible and accountable for my shift's mistakes. It's been more than a few years since I lived that life but parts of it are still there and I imagine always will be. There's not a thing wrong with that, either. Nobody does that stuff without it leaving an impression. If it doesn't, you didn't do the job. Yep, it's a Barney-Fife-ism that I come by honest by having served my community when the world turned upside-down. And, yes, I'm proud to have lived that part of my life and acquired the quirks that go with it.
Sbkline, I totally get what you've said about the rules/black & white/etc. even if I don't share the same sentiments 100% of the time on the specific topic of pool hopping. I guess my point is that no matter what someone's method of thinking is: black & white, shades of gray, full color, whatever it may be...just because it's different from mine it doesn't make it wrong. Different is just different and there's lots of perspectives out there aside from mine. People will always have their reasoning for being who they are and thinking the way they do. It's not for me to judge, label, or knock anybody whether they're different from me or not. I can agree to disagree and have differences without ugliness gettin' all up in the middle of it. :animwink:
As for my "Official-Official" "Clear As I Can Make It" stance on the whole pool hopping thing...get ready...it's comin' straight from the horse's mouth here...
If you are aware that there's a rule set forth by Disney to not pool hop and there's no life-threatening or other sincerely pressing reason to not abide, don't do it. There's no good reason to. If you still feel the overwhelming urge to partake of a resort pool other than your own you can seek other options without sneaking around or knowingly breaking the rule such as (but not limited to) asking at the front desk, switching to that resort for a night or two, or talking friends or relatives into staying there so you can come "visit". (I like option #3 myself..LOL!) Buuuut, if you happen to be a pool hopper flying under the radar, don't get upset if it doesn't work out for whatever reason. If Disney decides to allow resort pool hopping tomorrow I could
officially care less considering swimming isn't my recreation of choice on my WDW vacations.
Thanks y'all and have a magical day! :wave: