I really don't think this has anything to do with where you live. I know people in the NY/NJ area, Boston, Philly, DC, FL, TX, LA, CA, IL, etc. and the reviews are all mixed; however, most also went in not expecting "the best food of your life." i.e. the whole reason for the ADR was to see it, maybe have a chance to try The Grey Stuff, have beer or wine in MK, and see how the food is.
Our experience was a mixed one, but mainly positive. I too had the pork and wasn't all that pleased (the meat was kind of funky in taste/texture and the macaroni was salty), but DH's steak was tasty, the French onion soup was very good, the cupcakes were a nice treat, and I loved the assorted meats/charcuterie plate. The grey stuff...meh...but loved the presentation and wine and beer made it all better.
We dined on the 2nd night of the preview period so service was still all over the place, but our server was still decent. Ultimately, the food- IMO - was better than our experiences at CRT dinner, LTT dinner, and Crystal Palace dinner.
The moral of the story...experiences vary...as is true with pretty much all WDW restaurants.