My wife and I spent our first anniversary this year at WDW, and for the most part, it was a great trip. We loved staying at the Wilderness Lodge and eating at Artist's Point.
We saw the same things that have been mentioned in so many other posts before; a lack of class. Is this a price issue? I don't think so, not directly anyway. I think that if you can afford it, everyone should visit WDW at least once. It's a magical place, I think we can all agree on that.
Coming from what I consider to be a middle class family, we only made one trip to WDW every other year. In fact when the oil crunch of the 80's hit, it dropped to even less than that. Mom was a high school teacher and dad was manager of a music store, so while we weren't starving, there wasn't a whole lot of extra floating around.
When we did visit WDW, it was literally magical. My dad was one who didn't joke around a lot, but when we were at WDW, the kid in him came out. I remember those trips fondly, mostly because it was SPECIAL and a big deal for us to be able to go.
What I perceive when my wife and I visit is the entitlement attitude of "You owe me", and it makes me sick. It's only getting worse. It used to be rare that we saw an event where adults, not just kids or teens, were acting "less than adult", but in the last two trips, we've seen it repeatedly.
At any rate, I really do think it's a class issue. Some people just don't have any. You know, I've seen people that clearly were not "well off" move out of the way so that a little girl in a wheelchair could see the screen at RnR better, and BE HAPPY that that they could help make that child happy. So it must not be a money issue. On the other side of the coin, I saw a guest that, while in line at Test Track, got upset and made some pretty rude comments to no one in particular because someone got to ride twice, without having to exit. I couldn't resist it, and made a comment to my wife that I hoped this jerk's wife and kids would hear. "Isn't it great what Disney does for the Make A Wish Foundation? Did you see how bright that little girl's smile was? Man, that's awesome. I hope Disney keeps programs like this around." Maybe it worked, maybe not, but after that his wife gave him a look that could kill! :goodnevil
Seriously, I don't believe it has to be all that extreme. A simple excuse me or I'm sorry or ANYTHING other than NOTHING goes a long way. I've had people literally knock me down. (I walk with a cane, bad knees.) But the one that I remember the most is the teen who knocked me to the ground in Tomorrowland on his way to the newly refurbed SM. It's happened before. I didn't think he was even going to stop, so when he did, stammering out his apology with the color drained from his face and he helped me up and over to a bench, I was blown away. His folks even came over and offered to get some ice! Class, people. These folks had it, and they taught it to their son. But unfortunately, it looks like it's becoming more and more rare.
I don't think that people are at heart bad or evil. I think that the attitude is simply a reflection of the times. Things are just not appreciated as fully as in times past. Do I think we should return to the past? Not so much! I like my A/C and cable internet, heh heh:wave: But maybe if we stop and think before we jump to conclusions and scream in the face of that guest, CM or manager... I don't know, we could do worse!
Just my two pennies, I thought I'd share.