cw1982
Well-Known Member
They said the same thing about Gen X. We turned out fine. This generation will too.
Every generation thinks the next generation is going to ruin everything. I don't believe the millenials are any less inquisitive than we were. When I see some of the goofy stuff they do, I sometimes have to remind myself of that.
They're not less inquisitive; they're just inquisitive about different things. Times have changed, and what's interesting to them is often different from what was interesting to older generations. This is nothing new.
I don't necessarily agree with the blanket statements about how they'll "turn out fine," though. If you knew how many of my students this last year will never be able to hold down a full-time job because they can't even control their language in a classroom (seriously... I'm not exaggerating. Many of them don't even realize then they drop "f" bombs anymore) and can't ever own up to their own mistakes/lack of responsibility in a situation. They also can't put their cell phones down for more than five minutes without thinking you're giving them some kind of cruel and unusual punishment... how are they going to keep jobs, even minimum wage jobs, if they can't stop looking at their phones long enough to prove that they deserve their paychecks? Their parents often make excuses for them far beyond the point of nausea; it's really borderline abuse in some cases. I'll never forget the day that I had a high school senior's mother tell me that her son shouldn't be held to the same behavior standards as his peers because "he was a premie, so he's not as mature as his friends." Really?!? For an 18-year-old?
And as far as cynicism, I haven't even been alive 40 years yet I've only been teaching 8 years, and I knew all of this all too well by the end of my second year.
Granted, this is far from true of all students I have seen, but there is definitely an alarming trend building that, IMO, extends far beyond normal generational gaps.