Its my business if Im paying to enter a park and have an experience. When you book your vacation Disney prompts you to use MM+/FP+ through emails explaining, (and Im quoting):
"MyMagic+ takes your Walt Disney World vacation to an all-new level, making it uniquely yours, so you can enjoy every moment with family and friends." and,
"MyMagic+ gives you unprecedented control of your vacation and makes it easier than ever to enjoy time with the people who you care about the most."
So if I participate in the system they so encouragingly promote then I think there are reasonable expectations I should have, and if at any time during my trip that "unprecedented control" they sold me turns into the ability to do absolutely nothing then your telling me that its none of my business and I shouldnt even ask whats wrong? But if I do dare embark on that mission of rudeness and disturb a CM at Guest Relations to ask why I cant even access my account on the app, I dont wanna hear, "we are adding more magic". Im not 7 years old. I appreciate the attempt to keep up the appearance of magic and fantasy but Im an adult who paid with actual money, not magic beans and Im having a real issue. Please save the coy phrases for when Haunted Mansion stops to let a wheel chair on.
If a ride breaks down, thats one thing, and Im not gonna bother asking whats wrong, but if my vacation comes to a point where I cant verify my plans or even see them on MDE, then I think its fair to ask why my "unique, all new-level" experience is having technical issues. I guess you view that as demanding, you know kind of like how Disney demands you participate in MM+ otherwise your vacation experience will be the exact opposite of everything the glowing emails describe it as.