What's different about COVID is that we don't shut down large sections of the country for an entire year for other forms of death.
A hurricane or blizzard affects a region and (overall) and often is back to normal within a week. Deaths numbering in the hundreds are rare.
9/11 affected all of us in different ways, but President Bush encouraged people to get back to normal as quickly as possible.
Really, there's been nothing like COVID in recent memory.
As you suggest, COVID is not even close to one of the leading causes of death for those ages 0-17. In this age group, there are more deaths by:
- Motor Vehicle Accidents
- Suicide
- Gun Violence
- Homicide (other than firearms)
- Drowning
- Unintentional Suffocation
- Fire
If someone wants to save young lives, pick any one of these and do something about it.
For the elderly, we can save hundreds-of-thousands of lives by simply getting them vaccinated.