Elizabeth Hurley and everyone else with that attitude can pound sand.
I've always been gangly looking...super long limbs (especially my arms), but with a tummy (
much more round than Marilyn's) and thick thighs (I rode horses for years when I was young, so my thighs were always thick and strong). Menopause and working behind a desk for years has not been kind to me though...I've lost a lot of weight and muscle to the point where I'm WAY too thin and bony-looking (I'm not exaggerating). My adopted mother asked recently if I have an eating disorder (I don't), and I want to cover up no matter how hot it is (which really sucks because I love being outside in the summer). And yes, a bunch of it is definitely DNA - my birth father is a 6'4" skinny bean-pole while I'm only 5'5" and until recently looked much more like my birth mom, who was 5'3" and curvy like Marilyn (minus the chest).
Things that bother me about Hollywood, fashion and advertising - oh! and let's not forget social media filters and music videos:
- They push a standard that they KNOW is unattainable and continue the airbrushing of what are arguably already beautiful women to make them appear thinner and younger even after being called out for these actions
- Most people can't afford the personal trainer, nutritionist, etc. that help celebrities maintain their shape
- Most people can't afford a stylist and make-up artist to make them look a certain way every day
- They further poor self-esteem and body image in generation after generation of girls and women
- The industries themselves are often cruel to the models they employ...starvation diets, drugs, huge amounts of pressure, etc.
- How many men have left their wives for a younger, more "beautiful" woman? (I realize this is on the men, but let's not contribute to the issue by maintaining beauty standards that tell the world that weighing more than a certain amount or being older than a certain age is no longer beautiful)
- How much emotional distress, eating disorders, and other mental health issues could be avoided if society (as a whole) prioritized health and being comfortable in one's own skin instead of a particular body shape?
- Does the fashion industry even design clothes to fit real bodies anymore? (Serious question...I can't remember the last time I was able to buy jeans that fit my waist but are long enough in the torso and leg, or if they fit my legs and torso, they're way too tight in the waist)
- Who the hell wants to curl up to a bag of bones at night?
As you can tell, this is an issue that strikes close to home for me. My younger sister struggled with her weight for most of her life (until around her mid-30s...she wasn't just overweight, she was obese and headed towards being morbidly so), and married her first boyfriend (she met him in college and holy hell was that a disaster-and-a-half...she even underwent surgery in an attempt to please him...he lied about everything under the sun and cheated on her) and as a result of her issues she
still makes bad choices when it comes to people based on shallow factors.