That is a way less heartwarming version of your origin story than I remember.WDW...... 1983...... 47 times after that over about 36 years
DLR.......... 2005...... Just once
DLParis... 2015...... Also just once
My kids were either lucky or I was a terrible person, but my obsession with Disney was strictly selfish. I was unsure about going until that first day of the first time and everything I saw hooked me. I suspect my kids enjoyed it because they were always excited to go, but they could have been on the verge of an aneurism from hatred and I probably wouldn't have noticed. I have been with my younger family, with my older family, including grandkids, with just my wife and many times solo. I guess I was lucky in a way because when the cost to go finally passed my source of money without using credit, was when my back started to act up and really prevented me from being able to comfortably afford financially or physically to go there. Factoring in that and my feeling that Florida just doesn't seem all that safe, like it once did, I just have to live vicariously via YouTube.
Hi! Hope you'll make it to WDW one day!Hi there!My name's Sean!
I'm 33 years old, and I've got autism. I live near St. Louis with my mom, and even though I've never been to Florida, what year you did first go to WDW?
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I don't know about that, but I can say that I never said that I paid close attention, at the time, of any specific reaction that the kids had. I did mention a generally very enjoyable family trip and since my girls were being a lot less than whiny about it, I assumed that they enjoyed the first visit or at least they never said, no, please don't take us back to the horrible place. I do remember that on the drive back home I realized that they had at ages 6 and 9 memorized all the words to CoP's "Now is the time, now is the best time" after only one visit to the attraction. We sang that together, much to my wife's chagrin, quite often during the 1500 miles back home. I really did have warm fuzzies about the entire trip in general, but mostly it was for how I felt about it personally and my assumption that they felt the same thing. They weren't exactly toddlers at the time of our visit.That is a way less heartwarming version of your origin story than I remember.![]()
I don't know about that, but I can say that I never said that I paid close attention, at the time, of any specific reaction that the kids had. I did mention a generally very enjoyable family trip and since my girls were being a lot less than whiny about it, I assumed that they enjoyed the first visit or at least they never said, no, please don't take us back to the horrible place. I do remember that on the drive back home I realized that they had at ages 6 and 9 memorized all the words to CoP's "Now is the time, now is the best time" after only one visit to the attraction. We sang that together, much to my wife's chagrin, quite often during the 1500 miles back home. I really did have warm fuzzies about the entire trip in general, but mostly it was for how I felt about it personally and my assumption that they felt the same thing. They weren't exactly toddlers at the time of our visit.
What particular heart shredding story do you remember. I might need it for another time should I need to be more dramatic.We went because I was given four, 3 day Passports from a travel agency that I did advertising business with. I didn't become hooked until I got there, although we did spend a lot of time planning and they were included in the discussions, so I guess there was some excitement there, but if I hadn't wanted to see it myself we would have had a staycation instead. I don't remember them ever asking to go, though they did get excited when I told them we were going. But that was just a mere 41 years ago so I might have had a few of the details leak out through the wrinkles.
I never said I was wasn't aware of my loved ones, what I meant was that in spite of that, my motivation for going to WDW was not based on pressure from them or even how they reacted at the time. I am not sure how much I noticed it but somewhere deep in my addled twisted brain I'm sure it registered. I was 35 years old on that first visit and I can assure you that what I was feeling at the time was not connected directly to what or how they reacted to anything. I was sucking it all in my brain box and enjoying it because I enjoyed it. How positively they reacted was just frosting on the cake. At that time I was in my prime. A serious business man who had recently invested in a Residential Care Home and things were going well on pretty much every front. In spite of the fact that I had already experienced a lot in life, mainly spending time in a war and this was such a contrast to that experience that I was indeed thinking mostly about me, but, of course was happy that they were enjoying it as well.I remember several. The best I could not even find (you have been prolific over the years lol). But, here are two that demonstrate your deeper side....
Disney Memories and this Memories
These are not the thoughts of a shallow oblivious man, but rather of a deep-thinking empathetic soul. Seems to me like you were in fact paying very close attention to the loved ones surrounding you. Nay, even feeling those around you.
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See, you're doing it again, lol, deep insightful musings that are a pleasure to take in.There were no other family around and whatever emotions I had were not influenced by people around me. It was how I remember that dark part of my life while still maintaining a certain degree of optimism that things would work out for me. As it turned out, I lost a wife that apparently didn't want to be a wife, a business, my daughters moved out happily married, but at that time that was happening I was sitting alone in a house that had so much activity and laughter in the past feeling a void the size of the Grand Canyon. The more recent "memories" you sighted was more recent and can now appreciate that still have my daughters, relative good health for a 76 year old, a comfortable home and hope for the future no matter how long that might be, it is what it is and I am good with that now. That would explain the less deep, more positive posts that seems as if it contradicts but I see it as just a different phase of my life.
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