Probably because you live farther away, so everyone idolizes that "dream Disney vacation"! Which, I can't blame them for, because when you live farther away it is a much larger burden to visit both Universal and Disney, and Disney is sort of a "right of passage" thing to do, since it has that strong nostalgia factor and currently offers more than UNI. I live in Florida, and pretty much everyone in my school likes Universal more than Disney, or likes both equally. We take field trips to both, day trips are easy and simple. Lots of us have APs to Universal, etc.
HECK NO. It makes Buzz look like a carnival ride. And yes, TOT pretty much is unparalleled. Though Forbidden Journey and Radiator Springs Racers (haven't ridden it, but it looks amazing) give it a good run for it's money.