Sbkline - does your office have an existing policy to charge you for using supplies like that?
You example is noble but fails for that reason. This isn't a grey use of the service, you are explicitly trying to avoid an established setup to charge for this exact service. There is no stretching of usage.... No unspecified charge or not... This parking situation is direct, intentional, and with full awareness the steps are to avoid paying. That's why it's stealing and that's why it's poor ethics.
No one accidental runs over there time... Or is exchanging donated time for time on the clock etc.
This is people trying to justify directly and intentional avoiding paying for something they know is a charged item.
There does not need to be an official policy. It's office paper, paid for by the company, for office use. Technically, it's stealing to use even one sheet for personal use. Now, maybe the boss doesn't care. He may walk by and see you whip out a piece of paper to use to for your shopping list and it won't bother him a bit. But neither does Disney seem to care that people avoid paying for parking in this manner.
But my point isn't that it isn't "stealing" in a technical sense. My point is that before you or anyone else gets on the moral high horse, consider all the ways that you might be guilty of "theft" as well. Do you pull off the highway and use a restroom that is intended for paying customers? Do you run into Pecos Bill's for a quick second to grab a few napkins to wipe your kid's runny nose?
And another thing to consider, perhaps, at least in part, the expected $14 fee isn't just for parking the vehicle, but for the convenience of being right by the park for quick entry. If you want to park for free at the All Star Resorts, you forfeit the quick easy entrance into the park. Disney has free public parking at DTD, knowing that people will park there and bus over to the park. But again, by doing so, they are forfeiting the quick, easy entry into the park. For $14, they can park in a lot right by the park. When the park closes, they just walk, or take the tram to the lot and they get in their car and are on their way. But by opting for the free parking, now they have to wait in line for a bus. Perhaps having to wait 10 minutes while the person in the ECV gets situated. Then, depending on how long the line is, they might have to watch that bus pull away and then wait for another bus. Once on the bus, they might have to make other stops before getting to the place where they parked. So again, that $14 might not even be so much for that parking space itself as it is for the conveniece of proximity to the park from your parking spot. So looking at it that way, it's not even theft. It's just opting for the "free parking" option and then getting what you did not pay for: waiting in line for the bus, potentially long bus ride...a lot of wasted time that could have been spent in the park had you paid the $14.
But again, if we're gonna consider it "stealing", let's at least be realistic enough to acknowledge that there are differing levels and degrees of "theft". Because, to equate this practice with shoplifting, IMO, is totally ludicrous. This practice may be "theft" in the most techinical sense, just as my examples are as well, but you kind of have to think it through to realize that it is "theft". When someone walks into Walmart and shoves a DVD under his shirt and walks out the store, he is very deliberately and knowingly taking something that isn't his without paying. It is willful, blatant theft. When someone stops at McDonalds to go to the bathroom, he isn't conciously thinking "hey, I'm gonna steal a few pints of water, and a few sheets of toilet paper". He's just thinking he has to go ______. When someone parks at DTD or the All Stars, he isn't thinking he is stealing from Disney. He's just thinking that Disney doesn't make him pay to park at these places and he's willing to forfeit the benefits of parking "next door" in favor of parking for free. In your mind, your thinking it through to a conclusion and deciding that it's theft, but I don't think these people are putting that much thought into it. They just see that Disney offers some free parking and they are taking advantage of it.