Ah, that makes more sense, then. I think that's the problem here, too....you can mandate it all you want, but if no one enforces it, it doesn't help. We have mandates for public spaces indoors, like grocery stores, but I've seen 2 people not wearing masks at the store. One is my daughter's best friend's dad, which was weird to me, because they are pretty strict by Dutch standards....about like my husband and I, and they have not let the kids go out and such. But E did say that he's autistic and was worried about the mask mandate coming up and would have to think of some other way to get groceries, because he can not stand to wear a mask. So I don't know if he got some sort of exemption or if he just chanced getting a fine. Stores are supposed to enforce it themselves, and if they don't they can get in trouble. But it's possible no one saw him without the mask, or that they just figure "What are the odds someone turns us in for one person not wearing a mask?".
I hadn't heard that newer research that the masks protect the wearer. I did always wonder how it could only work one way...it's a protective barrier. How does it keep germs from going one way but not the other? So it makes sense that it protects both, but I had just read that that wasn't the case, so I figured I must be missing something. In any case, even if it's not a huge amount of protection, isn't it better than nothing?
My friend who got it already has some sort of respiratory issue. I think it has something to do with scar tissue, not in her lungs, but in the passage to the lungs. Decades ago, she was eating chips and one went in wrong and cut through the tissue. I was there when it happened on the bus ride home from a junior high basketball game. She couldn't breathe and they had to have an ambulance meet the team as we came into town so she could be taken to the hospital while the rest of us were taken back home. All of us were in tears scared to death. Anyway, it apparently caused some scar tissue to form there and it reduces her ability to breathe deeply enough. So then when she got Covid, it was really bad and she couldn't breathe. But she had problems with her insurance company. They wouldn't pay for anything that wasn't an "emergency" if it was out of state, and even though she HAD gone to the ER, they didn't admit her, but gave her the nebulizer to take back to wherever she was staying, so the insurance was trying to say it wasn't emergency care and they wouldn't cover it. I'm not sure why exactly they didn't admit her, but the nebulizer helped anyway. But having experienced all that, and she wouldn't go home and bring it to her family because it was so awful, why is she anti mask? And I can understand HER not wanting a vaccination since it makes her sick, but why wouldn't you want everyone around you protected so that you couldn't get it from them? She didn't want to give it to her family, but she's willing for everyone else to get it? It doesn't make sense to me. She had it way back before the summer, I think, though. Long before we had a vaccine, back when mask mandates were just starting and only in a few places.