Sans Souci
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We'd never heard it before her daughter said it, so like any adult, we had to search for definitions. The definitions we found for a Karen boiled down to entitled soccer mom with a snobbish streak, insisting their actions are justified because they deserve the best and that anyone doing any less is just ignorant or too meek to demand what they deserve. I can see how it could easily take a turn and demean women who are intelligent and are just standing up for what's right. Unfortunately, the person where I first learned this fits a lot of the negative descriptions we've found. Still, she's proud of it and won't be changing any time soon. It's just embarrassing when you go out for a meal and she insists on speaking to the chef about how to cook pasta (did this once with take out too- everyone heard that telephone call), or wants to sit your server down and show him pictures of the different kinds of couscous so he knows better for next time, or insists on a free milk at a fast food place because they forgot hers a few weeks ago. I mean, it's definitely assertive and these are certainly areas where she's in disagreement with how things were done...and in some cases were just wrong. I guess I just have a different threshold for things where I'll complain and take a different tone with people when I do.
I took pasta (gluten free) and added in whipped ricotta (a lot of it!) with grated asiago, fresh mozzarella, garlic, salt, pepper, oregano, flat leaf parsley, and topped it with bagged shredded Italian blend cheese and gluten free Italian bread crumbs.
I have lived in 6 different states and a lot of different houses and apartments, so it's hard to say exactly where childhood home is. The homes we drove by for this were our first home as a couple and our first home with the kids. Our first home as a couple has a little more sentimental value since it was my FIL's house before he sold it to my husband. It's changed owners several times since, but aside from them destroying the front porch, we've gotten to see other changes through real estate listings. The funniest of which is them covering all of the floors and at least the bottom half of the walls with marble. It looks like a casino in there now! I think 2011 was the last time I drove by my home in FL...not a lot changed. I haven't seen any of our houses in NJ since 2005. I don't think I'd remember any of the other places from when I was really young.
I remember my grandmother had a friend like the woman you're describing. They would go out to eat and she would always send back her meal, ALWAYS and was a jerk about it to the poor server, too. My grandmother was embarrassed by her behavior and eventually did a slow fade.
I dealt with some pretty obnoxious people when I worked at Starbucks. One shift, I was working the drive thru and a woman placed an order for a cappuccino and she said, "I want it served with a smile." It was the tone in her voice, too. Wow, did I ever roll my eyes at that. I just wrote "served with a " on her cup and she got a kick out of it. I might have made her espresso shots decaf, too. But I'm not going to lie, I thought she was out of line.
We also had this guy come in all the time who wanted a "bone dry cappuccino." Nobody could ever make the flipping thing to his liking. It was too wet or too dry. He was kind of menacing about it, too. I used to hate it when he would come in and it was all women working. He seemed like the kind of person who could pop off at any moment. I guess he was a Kevin.
That ricotta bake sounds amazing--like an Italian Mac n cheese. One my weight is stabilized, I think I'll give it a whirl.