Yes, I read your replies. I gave you a like.
I remember the GAC/DAS thread well. I followed it quite closely.
I weighed in fairly early (page 2 - 63 likes), and shared the situation of my nephew Joey.
Unfortunately, since posting that, my cousin has had to surrender full time custody of Joey back to the agency. She still considers herself his mom; and he comes home for holidays, and every few weekends. He just can't live there anymore as he has become too much of a threat to the remaining members of the family.
I really feel for families in these situations, and tried to respond with non-judgemental kindness in that thread; but there were a couple of extreme posters on both sides of the fence. You weren't one of them, but the fellow you tangled was pretty "out there".
I posted my original thought, and then pretty much stayed out of the debate.