Hi blackerbys17,
I hope you still read this message I jumped in a bit late. I have a similiar situation with my wife, she does not like Disney, not anywhere near me. However, I found a way for her to love it, atleast when we are there. When we got engaged at the MK it was all a surprise to her, I was supposed to be down there for work and took her along because it spanned over a weekend. I made that day completely around her, I did not push any attraction, restaurant, or show, she made all the decisions. That whole day I just concentrated on her, made her feel loved, showered her with the pleasure that was being with her all day. We had the best meals (Royal Table), I took pictures with her with the sights of the MK, but most of all, even though we were there because of me, I made sure she knew that it was her that I was interested in. This can be difficult since you are spending the day at the most magical place in the world, but don't foget you are spending it with the most magical person in your life.
Your DH will come to love Disney, we all do, just give him time. In that time make sure that it is him (and your kids) that you are truly in love with. The surroundings will eventually have an effect positively on him. Whatever may spark his attention anywhere on grounds run with it. It was the greatest pleasure to hear my wife say things like "I think it is really great how Disney pays particular attention to little things like doorknobs" this is then I knew that she was in my world now.
That day that we got engaged was the best time I have ever had at Disney, and we saw no more than 8 attractions that day, but I was with the most beautiful, wonderful, and important person in my life.