englanddg
One Little Spark...
I can only imagine what you see and go through. That stinks, I feel for ya (with empathy, I've been there, done that...).I really felt for him too. As a teacher, it's really nerve-racking to break up a fight. I'm always worried about getting in trouble for holding a kid back from going after another kid, but in the end, I always do what I can to keep whoever is involved from getting hurt. There have been teachers in this area who have gotten in trouble for breaking up fights, and there was also one teacher recently who got into trouble for not immediately breaking up a fight, even though the fight was quite violent by the time she got there, and she was an older teacher and would have probably gotten hurt (she did call the office, and they were on their way). It just stinks for CM's and teachers that when a fight happens, you're "darned if you do and darned if you don't!"
I learned a long time ago never to actually break up fights between kids. One time I did, and I was trying to keep the kid from getting in trouble, thought I was "doing him a favor", so I lectured him and was about to send him on his way (he was just shoving kids out of the way at the skeeball lanes). His Momma stormed up and started yelling at me that "No one lectures my child but his momma." I apologized profusely and backed away. As I was leaving, she smacked her child and said "Don't you ever let someone talk to you that way, you demand respect."
(she actually used some other terms starting with C and H that involve my skin color, but I'll leave you to imagine how that conversation went).
Anyhow, I learned my lesson. From that point forward, when I caught a kid misbehaving, I took them to their Momma.
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