spacemt354
Chili's
Children below a certain age need sleep, and lots of it. Please refer to WebMD for a guide:
http://www.webmd.com/parenting/guide/sleep-children
For children ages 3 to 6, the recommendation is 10-to-12 hours per day. Presumably, children above this age should not require a stroller.
It doesn't matter whether it's a vacation or not. Parents should make sure their children get the correct amount of sleep every day.
It's also important not to vary their sleep patterns just because it's a vacation. If they are used to waking up at a certain time, then that time should be respected, even on vacation.
To make sure our young children received sufficient sleep, it meant both an afternoon nap and leaving the theme parks no later than 8 PM to make sure they were in bed no later than 9 PM.
WebMD is certainly not the most accurate source of information. I can type in 3 symptoms and it can diagnose me with everything ranging from the flu to MS.
If I want medical information, I don't use WebMD.
Needless to say though in this case, you are correct, children do need sleep. However the rigidity of the 10-12 hours doesn't have to be held gospel. It is recommended.
On a personal note, when I was a child, I could stay up with everyone else in my family. I would take an afternoon nap around 2 or 3pm, wake up for dinner and be ready for the night. Everyone is different though. Not every child is the same, and not all should be held to the same standards.
There is nothing wrong with "sleeping in" till 9 or 10am as a child. If they leave the park by 10pm, are in bed by 11pm, and wake up at 9am...that still fits into your range of 10-12 hrs of sleep. (In addition to any potential nap throughout the day.) So I'm not sure where the criticism comes from.
While one philosophy might have worked for your family, others might be different, but no less correct.