I'm genuinely curious about wages compared to costs in other parts of the country.
As a Florida resident - lived in Miami my whole life and now Ive been spending half the year in Orlando now. I’d say Florida isn’t the worse thing around.Well folks, looks like my time in California may be coming to an end very soon. My parents who are getting close to retirement age are looking to downsize… at the house we’ve been renting from them for the past 8 years.
As I look around real estate prices in California it’s pretty clear that I have been priced out. My non negotiables are that I need to be in a decent/good area and it needs to be a house with at least 3 bedrooms. Which means I’m priced out in Southern California. And if I’m not going to be able to stay near my roots and family out here I guess that means I may as well move to a state where I can comfortably afford a home. Where I can buy a brand new and bigger home for the same price as renting a tiny house from the 60’s here.
After a few days of research, these are the 8 states in the running. These states were chosen because they have a good combo of cost of living, quality of life, weather and attractions. As well as being places that appeal to me for various reasons. In no particular order although Florida and Texas are probably near the top (for now) and Utah and Idaho are on the bottom of the list due to the cold winters.
Florida
Texas
Arizona
Georgia
Tennessee
South Carolina
Utah
Idaho
@TP2000 how are you liking Utah?
I’d love to hear all opinions on the other states on my list. Especially if you live there.
I'm genuinely curious about wages compared to costs in other parts of the country.
So @TP2000 have you taken a trip to Lagoon yet? It's like Knotts and Magic Mountain had a baby and left it on a farm. It has a pioneer section like Knotts and lower level coasters similar to MM. Cannibal is pretty good. They have two classic dark rides. Dracula's Castle and Terror Ride. They are extremely cheesy.
Is there any way you can visit some of these states for even a short period of time to see which ones suit you more? I get not wanting to leave your comfort zone. I purposefully temporarily moved to Massachusetts a few years ago, but I was still naturally nervous about it and questioned if I was making the right decision. Sometimes you just have to do it and see what happens.Thank you for the response everyone @TP2000 @GiveMeTheMusic @Californian Elitist @mlayton144 @Phroobar @PiratesMansion @tcool123 I appreciate it. Haven’t slept well the last couple of nights. A lot of information to process. I’m not sure I have the guts to go through with a move but I’m not sure I have a choice either.
I’m not completely opposed to just staying in California and continuing to rent. It’s the “safe” move. Id still be home. My kids would still have their cousins and grandparents etc. I would just hate to move my family into a rental only to have to move again in a few years. That sounds like a huge hassle and I’d hate to keep shuffling my kids around and have them switching schools etc. I don’t like the thought of being at the mercy of the landlord. I have the innate desire to put down some roots. I just never thought that would be on the other side of the country away from all family/ friends and everything I know. But my grandparents on both sides did it in the late 70’s and that was a new country/ continent. Not just a new state. Although it’s worth noting there’s probably more similarities with Sicily and Southern California than Southern California and somewhere like Montana or Boston.
I’d hate to be sitting there in my nice new home in Dallas or Orlando after a few weeks, look at my wife and say “now what?” Ultimately I think it has to be a quality of life move. And the question is would that quality of life be better half way around the country away from everyone and everything I know? It’s not just about home ownership.
Is there any way you can visit some of these states for even a short period of time to see which ones suit you more? I get not wanting to leave your comfort zone. I purposefully temporarily moved to Massachusetts a few years ago, but I was still naturally nervous about it and questioned if I was making the right decision. Sometimes you just have to do it and see what happens.
If California truly can no longer host you and your family safely and comfortably, you should absolutely move. I have heard many stories of people leaving California and regretting it, but that doesn’t mean you will. Continue to do your research, talk to people who live in the states you’re looking into, and visit them, if you can. Do your research about California as well, before you leave. Because you seem to be on the fence, be as sure as possible before you leave. You can always come back, too. I love California, but moving to a different state was personally very exciting to me. I looked forward to living somewhere I had never lived before, getting to know my new home, and meeting new people.
Do what’s best for you and your family.
What would you be losing, with the exception of proximity to family? Maybe making a list of pros and cons may help.I can definitely stay in California and my family would be safe/comfortable but it just becomes a value thing. Comparing what I can get here vs elsewhere. Elsewhere looks very attractive in that regard but the question is it worth losing everything else? That’s what I have to answer.
There is definitely also something exciting about it all. I’ve been here in the San Fernando Valley my entire life. 40 years. Which interestingly enough happens to be my grandparents ages, plus or minus a few years when they moved here. A change of scenery doesn’t sound bad.
I’m going to Miami for a cruise in April. That would give me an opportunity to check out some of the cities in Florida. They’re more central Florida though.
I wouldn't move just to pay rent someplace else. The hard part is getting that down payment. I would also take school quality into account. I'm kind of on the other side of the boat. I'm looking for a place to retire and it doesn't need to be near a theme park but a University and museums/culture would be nice.Thank you for the response everyone @TP2000 @GiveMeTheMusic @Californian Elitist @mlayton144 @Phroobar @PiratesMansion @tcool123 I appreciate it. Haven’t slept well the last couple of nights. A lot of information to process. I’m not sure I have the guts to go through with a move but I’m not sure I have a choice either.
I’m not completely opposed to just staying in California and continuing to rent. It’s the “safe” move. Id still be home. My kids would still have their cousins and grandparents etc. Thing is, I would just hate to move my family into a rental only to have to move again in a few years. That sounds like a huge hassle and I’d hate to keep shuffling my kids around and have them switching schools etc. I don’t like the thought of being at the mercy of the landlord. I have the innate desire to put down some roots. I just never thought that would be on the other side of the country away from all family/ friends and everything I know. But my grandparents on both sides did it in the late 70’s and that was a new country/ continent. Not just a new state. Although it’s worth noting there’s probably more similarities with Sicily and Southern California than Southern California and somewhere like Montana or Boston.
I’d hate to be sitting there in my nice new home in Dallas or Orlando after a few weeks, look at my wife and say “now what?” Ultimately I think it has to be a quality of life move. And the question is would that quality of life be better half way around the country away from everyone and everything I know? It’s not just about home ownership.
I will be responding to specific posts later today. I have a 7 year old boy who is bored on Winter break and a 2 year old who does not stop moving. Which makes me wonder how in the H*ll im going to sort all this out. I had to take 8 breaks writing this post.
One thing to keep in mind if you do the move for real is proximity to other states and things to do, particularly if you're not super outdoorsy.Thank you for the response everyone @TP2000 @GiveMeTheMusic @Californian Elitist @mlayton144 @Phroobar @PiratesMansion @tcool123 I appreciate it. Haven’t slept well the last couple of nights. A lot of information to process. I’m not sure I have the guts to go through with a move but I’m not sure I have a choice either.
I’m not completely opposed to just staying in California and continuing to rent. It’s the “safe” move. Id still be home. My kids would still have their cousins and grandparents etc. Thing is, I would just hate to move my family into a rental only to have to move again in a few years. That sounds like a huge hassle and I’d hate to keep shuffling my kids around and have them switching schools etc. I don’t like the thought of being at the mercy of the landlord. I have the innate desire to put down some roots. I just never thought that would be on the other side of the country away from all family/ friends and everything I know. But my grandparents on both sides did it in the late 70’s and that was a new country/ continent. Not just a new state. Although it’s worth noting there’s probably more similarities with Sicily and Southern California than Southern California and somewhere like Montana or Boston.
I’d hate to be sitting there in my nice new home in Dallas or Orlando after a few weeks, look at my wife and say “now what?” Ultimately I think it has to be a quality of life move. And the question is would that quality of life be better half way around the country away from everyone and everything I know? It’s not just about home ownership.
I will be responding to specific posts later today. I have a 7 year old boy who is bored on Winter break and a 2 year old who does not stop moving. Which makes me wonder how in the H*ll im going to sort all this out. I had to take 8 breaks writing this post.
I'm looking for a place to retire and it doesn't need to be near a theme park but a University and museums/culture would be nice.
I wouldn't move just to pay rent someplace else. The hard part is getting that down payment.
I had no idea cal state tax rate was so punishing , NJ taxes are the highest in the nation but mostly on the property side of things - yikes 10% on income at that level is just wowHere's a fun example of how the tax thing works for married couples.
You've got one 30 year old man who is single, he has a good cubicle job making $75,000 per year, but he has no spouse. He's a man about town, still hitting the bars and a real gay blade if you will!
$75,000 Income, Filing Single. $9,487 Federal Income Tax. $7,234 California Income Tax.
Single Man After Tax Income = $58,274
The guy who works in the office cubicle next to that gay-blade-man-about-town is also 30 years old. But he got married at age 27, and instead of hitting the bars every Saturday he now goes to Costco and Home Depot. He also makes $75,000 and is the principal bread winner and so he gets a $4,000 reduction in federal taxes, but his wife has a part-time job at home while she's taking care of their 2 year old with a second child on the way. She makes $25,000 at her part-time job in addition to her full-time and most important job of being a mom.
$75,000 Income, Filing Married. $5,590 Federal Income Tax. $7,226 California Income Tax. (Sacramento gives no marriage tax breaks!)
$25,000 Income, Filing Married. $0 Federal Income Tax. $806 California Income Tax. (Sacramento still wants their 800 bucks, lady!)
Husband's After Tax Income = $62,185
Wife's After Tax Income = $24,194
Married Couple After Tax Income = $86,379
Get married, stay married, pool resources, build family wealth, then take the kids to Disneyland!
California Tax Calculator 2023-2024: Estimate Your Taxes - Forbes Advisor
Use our income tax calculator to find out what your take home pay will be in California for the tax year. Enter your details to estimate your salary after tax.www.forbes.com
I had no idea cal state tax rate was so punishing , NJ taxes are the highest in the nation but mostly on the property side of things - yikes 10% on income at that level is just wow
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