The Chit Chat Chit Chat Thread

21stamps

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She is particular about the style too. I showed her a cute dress that had a unicorn coming out of a pocket. She didn’t like it because the cut was straight. She likes dresses that really twirl like a Marilyn Monroe dress.

Oh that’s so cute!! I love it!! She’s a smart gal. :)

I wear pencil skirts to work, but for out and about I prefer A-line or maxi dresses or very loose fitting short dresses.

T’s sports, and constant kings island visits have had a great impact on my wardrobe though, I used to be in a dress about 90% of the time.. grocery, errands, lunch, shopping, entertainment, coffee, wherever..had work out clothes for working out. Now the past year or two I find that I am drowning in athletic gear.. not just for work outs, but to be comfortable at all of his games and practices..and on rides at an amusement park.lol. Sometimes I try to wear a nice casual outfit to those things, but it’s so much easier to throw on leggings and a tee.
 

21stamps

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I don't believe it is an easy way out. Most schools and businesses just don't want to waste time on being fussy of the amount of material on a woman's shoulders these days especially when the code itself isn't equal for men and woman. Who wants to set themselves up for a lawsuit. And there have been many in schools and workplaces that are unionized. There is one right now with a Pilots Union.

Me as a surveyor for most of my career I wore jeans. I took my career seriously and was well respected in the industry. Frankly being in a male dominated career a skirt would have been inappropriate. Lots of the tech industry has gone the way of Steve Jobs. Black turtleneck and jeans every day and I fail to see how that hurt Apple. The Silicon Valley which is boatloads of talent. Engineers usually in a tshirt, zipper hoodie and jeans and of course gym shoes. Zuckerberg has been know well for his tshirts, sweatshirts and jeans. Very successful. Their clothing didn't seem to call into question their ability lead or build awesome corporations and draw talented employees. In the fast-moving world of tech, the idea is to show that your'e not wasting precious time on something as vain as fashion, they aren't judgmental or catty about petty things like clothing but are some pretty talented people that have more things to focus on who is wearing what, the Code if anything is University casual. And it works. Likely why more and more firms are moving away from dress codes.

I am old enough to remember the poor RNs that were forced to wear white dresses and heeled white shoes with a stupid hat everyday in hospitals. That is a heck of another folly of a dress code gone bye bye. Getting patients in and out of beds, doing CPR etc in a white dress. My Nuns were in full cover from head to toe, couldn't see a hair on their head, no necks. Don't think it made them better school teachers to wear that in non air conditioned buildings. Don't believe little girls forced by code to wear a skirt or dress made them smarter. So what does that teach little girls that adults write dress codes requiring them to have exposed legs in school?

The one I like the most that has 'let it go' was SouthWest Airline. As you look at their attendants they dressed in the summer months, shorts and a polo where other airlines have for decades dressed their flight attendants in some unique costumes/uniforms and the ridiculous high heels on an aircraft. Me my favorite airline is SouthWest, usually nice and warm employees, fair price. Being more casually dressed in their industry doesn't seem to have affected the corporation or their success.

I’m still a fan of men in a suit, or at least a shirt and tie, and women in professional attire. Polos are fine for Friday’s I think. I also love school uniforms though.

One thing I tell my son when he’s trying to run out the door to school, with his hair sticking out all over the place, like Doc from Back to the Future style..or when he grabs a tee from a laundry basket that hasn’t been ironed yet.. is that “personal presentation is part of having good manners”

I know that might sound old school, but it’s something that I believe. That said, I was queen of the ‘wet hair bun’ in high school...and, I went to Disney last year sans manicure with my nail polish peeling off. 😂. I’m failing at my own rule lately
 

MySmallWorldof4

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What did your kids dress as this year? Do the older ones still get into it? My brother and I both dressed up all the way through high school, but we went taert ro kcirting...we knocked on doors and BROUGHT candy. We'd find out if there were any kids who were sick, or couldn't go trick or treating for some reason, and we'd bring them a bag of candy. Some adults went trick or drinking....much easier in a small town where you can walk home.
Very nice what you and your brother did. My 2 oldest did not Trick or Treat. My youngest was a bat, and my 11 yr old was a peacock.
 

MySmallWorldof4

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It should be a felony to film a fight, it’s technically cyber bullying to post it on “SnapChat” (Which I hate) Or “Instagram” (I also hate). It’s getting to much, people CHEAR ON fights at my school, it's like everyday, it needs to stop.
You are so right! There needs to be some accountability. Crimes are getting committed, and then they have the gall to film it. There should be a 10 minute lag from when a post is created and then published so that it can be viewed by some sort of watchdog. TV shows, movies, video games all get rated. The same should apply to Youtube, and other social media sites.
 

Cesar R M

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Cesar R M

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It should be a felony to film a fight, it’s technically cyber bullying to post it on “SnapChat” (Which I hate) Or “Instagram” (I also hate). It’s getting to much, people CHEAR ON fights at my school, it's like everyday, it needs to stop.
I disagree. Filming is perfect to take into consideration evidence of who started the fight and who are involved. Also those who are cheering or indirectly being involved can also be counselled or reported to their parents so corrective measures takes place.
 

MySmallWorldof4

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I disagree. Filming is perfect to take into consideration evidence of who started the fight and who are involved. Also those who are cheering or indirectly being involved can also be counselled or reported to their parents so corrective measures takes place.
I just think that with kids, they think filming and posting makes them “famous”. Remember the “Me generation”, this generation is even worse in vanity and attention grabbing. Sure the video is great for possible catching the culprits, but they don’t seem to be doing so. Plus aren’t snapchat and Instagram posts only kept for 24 hours? Doesn’t give much time for law enforcement.
 

Cesar R M

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but they don’t seem to be doing so.

Thats the problem of the parents. Not the technology per se.
Plus aren’t snapchat and Instagram posts only kept for 24 hours?
Instagram is permanent until you delete it manually or some moderator erases it.
not sure about snapchat since I've never used that thing.
 

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