I hope everyone in the path is staying safe...man it looks nasty. I read that St. Barts and St. Martin have been hit now, too.
So DS is still being bullied daily, but I am SUPER proud of him because he's been just pretending to be deaf and telling them he can't hear them until they get bored and go away. That's a HUGE step for him, and at least so far this year, there hasn't been anything physical...yet. But yesterday, he went to his teacher after recess and she just told him to come to her during recess next time so she can deal with it. You can't deal with it if it doesn't happen during recess?

Like...gee...if you'd only told me 3 minutes ago, I could have done something. Too late now!
And then today, with a different teacher, he did go to her every time it happened. I asked him what she did...he says he doesn't know because he wasn't there. What do you mean you weren't there? How did you tell the teacher if you weren't there. "Well, I told the teacher, but I wasn't there when she did anything." So he doesn't know if she even did anything, but she DID tell him she'd be "talking to" the bullies 10 times more than last year. Wait...so you didn't do anything like..90% of the time last year when it happened? It shouldn't be POSSIBLE to talk to them 10 times more than last year because they should have been called out EVERY time it happened...and even if that's just an off the cuff remark and not literal, it still says that they didn't do much about it last year and know they need to be much more active. And we're past the point where talking will have much effect. These kids have been allowed to torment him for the last 4-5 years...you think telling them not to is going to have any effect? I'm just at a loss. But he seems to have found a way to deal with a lot of it and it's working, so I'm so grateful for his therapy where he's learning it, and I'm so proud of him for how well he's dealing with it.