The Chit Chat Chit Chat Thread

Songbird76

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And my morning started at 3am Tuesday and this at 530am
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followed by this just before 9am

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and arriving here before 10am
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We had lunch at and then our room was ready! Woot!
AAAHHHHH!!! I'm so jealous! Have a fantastic time!!
 

Songbird76

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I hope everyone in the path is staying safe...man it looks nasty. I read that St. Barts and St. Martin have been hit now, too.

So DS is still being bullied daily, but I am SUPER proud of him because he's been just pretending to be deaf and telling them he can't hear them until they get bored and go away. That's a HUGE step for him, and at least so far this year, there hasn't been anything physical...yet. But yesterday, he went to his teacher after recess and she just told him to come to her during recess next time so she can deal with it. You can't deal with it if it doesn't happen during recess? :confused: Like...gee...if you'd only told me 3 minutes ago, I could have done something. Too late now!
And then today, with a different teacher, he did go to her every time it happened. I asked him what she did...he says he doesn't know because he wasn't there. What do you mean you weren't there? How did you tell the teacher if you weren't there. "Well, I told the teacher, but I wasn't there when she did anything." So he doesn't know if she even did anything, but she DID tell him she'd be "talking to" the bullies 10 times more than last year. Wait...so you didn't do anything like..90% of the time last year when it happened? It shouldn't be POSSIBLE to talk to them 10 times more than last year because they should have been called out EVERY time it happened...and even if that's just an off the cuff remark and not literal, it still says that they didn't do much about it last year and know they need to be much more active. And we're past the point where talking will have much effect. These kids have been allowed to torment him for the last 4-5 years...you think telling them not to is going to have any effect? I'm just at a loss. But he seems to have found a way to deal with a lot of it and it's working, so I'm so grateful for his therapy where he's learning it, and I'm so proud of him for how well he's dealing with it.
 

StarWarsGirl

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In the Parks
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I hope everyone in the path is staying safe...man it looks nasty. I read that St. Barts and St. Martin have been hit now, too.

So DS is still being bullied daily, but I am SUPER proud of him because he's been just pretending to be deaf and telling them he can't hear them until they get bored and go away. That's a HUGE step for him, and at least so far this year, there hasn't been anything physical...yet. But yesterday, he went to his teacher after recess and she just told him to come to her during recess next time so she can deal with it. You can't deal with it if it doesn't happen during recess? :confused: Like...gee...if you'd only told me 3 minutes ago, I could have done something. Too late now!
And then today, with a different teacher, he did go to her every time it happened. I asked him what she did...he says he doesn't know because he wasn't there. What do you mean you weren't there? How did you tell the teacher if you weren't there. "Well, I told the teacher, but I wasn't there when she did anything." So he doesn't know if she even did anything, but she DID tell him she'd be "talking to" the bullies 10 times more than last year. Wait...so you didn't do anything like..90% of the time last year when it happened? It shouldn't be POSSIBLE to talk to them 10 times more than last year because they should have been called out EVERY time it happened...and even if that's just an off the cuff remark and not literal, it still says that they didn't do much about it last year and know they need to be much more active. And we're past the point where talking will have much effect. These kids have been allowed to torment him for the last 4-5 years...you think telling them not to is going to have any effect? I'm just at a loss. But he seems to have found a way to deal with a lot of it and it's working, so I'm so grateful for his therapy where he's learning it, and I'm so proud of him for how well he's dealing with it.
My mom is a substitute teacher. Every year, they make her take a training for dealing with bullying. In our system, failing to address bullying is grounds for termination.

I fail to see why that isn't the case in your system. For the teachers to just have this "whatever" attitude...boy, I'm offended on your behalf!
 

Cesar R M

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I hope everyone in the path is staying safe...man it looks nasty. I read that St. Barts and St. Martin have been hit now, too.

So DS is still being bullied daily, but I am SUPER proud of him because he's been just pretending to be deaf and telling them he can't hear them until they get bored and go away. That's a HUGE step for him, and at least so far this year, there hasn't been anything physical...yet. But yesterday, he went to his teacher after recess and she just told him to come to her during recess next time so she can deal with it. You can't deal with it if it doesn't happen during recess? :confused: Like...gee...if you'd only told me 3 minutes ago, I could have done something. Too late now!
And then today, with a different teacher, he did go to her every time it happened. I asked him what she did...he says he doesn't know because he wasn't there. What do you mean you weren't there? How did you tell the teacher if you weren't there. "Well, I told the teacher, but I wasn't there when she did anything." So he doesn't know if she even did anything, but she DID tell him she'd be "talking to" the bullies 10 times more than last year. Wait...so you didn't do anything like..90% of the time last year when it happened? It shouldn't be POSSIBLE to talk to them 10 times more than last year because they should have been called out EVERY time it happened...and even if that's just an off the cuff remark and not literal, it still says that they didn't do much about it last year and know they need to be much more active. And we're past the point where talking will have much effect. These kids have been allowed to torment him for the last 4-5 years...you think telling them not to is going to have any effect? I'm just at a loss. But he seems to have found a way to deal with a lot of it and it's working, so I'm so grateful for his therapy where he's learning it, and I'm so proud of him for how well he's dealing with it.
Theres video of the Sint Maarten hit. It was insane!

Also, there is a lot of outrage today. As a lot of people in twitter and tumblr have been posting clear cases of price gouging. (40 USD for a pack of bottled water, can you imagine?)
Or gas being sold 4x the price.

Theres a lot of sharing of videos and calling the hotlines set to prevent these abuses.


*edit*

Aftermath video of the hit on Sint Maarten:

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/trail-devastation-hurricane-irma-destroys-11122206

I wonder if this video is of Marigot.
 
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Songbird76

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My mom is a substitute teacher. Every year, they make her take a training for dealing with bullying. In our system, failing to address bullying is grounds for termination.

I fail to see why that isn't the case in your system. For the teachers to just have this "whatever" attitude...boy, I'm offended on your behalf!
Thank you! Nice to know I'm not insane for thinking this should have been dealt with AGES ago. And I can't even type the things they were calling him on here...they'd be completely bleeped out and I'd get in some trouble. The NICEST of the things was calling him a loser. Wait...not true, one of them "only" did the cry baby gesture, rubbing the eyes and mimicking "wah wah". That's not quite as bad as loser...but the other things were rated R.
 

Gabe1

Ivory Tower Squabble EST 2011. WINDMILL SURVIVOR
Who would have thunk?

We had boarded bus at Boardwalk, less security less monorails and less walking leaving Epcot WS to head to MK.

Bus driver: EMH at MK tonight. Nice surprise after later start. Bet EMH was part of original plans but forgotten. Who looks at schedules on Vacation? :facepalm:
 

Figgy1

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Who would have thunk?

We had boarded bus at Boardwalk, less security less monorails and less walking leaving Epcot WS to head to MK.

Bus driver: EMH at MK tonight. Nice surprise after later start. Bet EMH was part of original plans but forgotten. Who looks at schedules on Vacation? :facepalm:
Keep having fun but please check the weather once in a while and if looks like it will get bad make sure you have some edible food and maybe a bottle of wine or 3. I've got my weather blowers cranked way up, wishing you magical and safe time down there.
 

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