French Quarter
Well-Known Member
Yes, but I'm talking about parent teacher meetings. They take place in the classroom, and we can't leave our kids home alone at 7 and 9, so we bring them and set them in the entrance hall to color or play on the ipad. They are not allowed to come into the meeting, but there are always other parents waiting in the hall, so the kids are not unattended. But I don't think it's fair to expect parents of elementary aged children to come to meetings where they are not allowed to bring their children. If you are a single parent, or like us in that we BOTH want to be there to talk to the teachers, you can't leave them home alone. If you don't have access to or can't afford a babysitter, you are left with the choice of either not going, or of bringing the kids along and let them play while you are in the meeting.
Oh, I don't disagree with you. I never understood why they couldn't provide childcare in a separate space of the school for the one hour that the meet the teacher presentation takes. But, if I were explicitly told I should not take my child to something, I would stay home if childcare wasn't possible. Just my personality. (And that's probably one of the reasons why there were so few parents there.)
Now, parent-teacher interviews are a bit different. You aren't trying to hear an unmicrophoned teacher talk to you at the front of a gymnasium filled with 100 people. I would do what you did in a heartbeat. I have had to occasionally take my son to meetings for my work, for that matter. I stick him in my office with an iPad while we meet next door in the board room. (Less so after I remarried.)