I think what you're seeing is people's frustration with that and a sense of having no power to change the direction of things.
In some cases, I'm sure it's just general frustration that's coming across as personal attacks.
... and I'm sure some people really do want to blame other individuals like any one guest is the problem.
Either way, it's not
your problem just like it's not
their money.
Personally, I'm not happy with things but I also don't expect anyone else to change their vacation behavior to suit my own.
I might not always be clear about that but for fans, this isn't and shouldn't be framed as any sort of silly moral debate - at least not as it pertains to the
consumer side of things.
That said, I'm pretty sure that one part of the original surenity prayer was:
".. grant me the stamina to
b!t#h about what I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.."