I really believe just about any movie you can create this same type of list. I mean really, you are blaming RotJ that Leia says she remembered her mom? How is that a problem with the film? It's a problem with the prequels not ep6. The movie isn't perfect, by any means. And I do think empire is the better film but Return of the jedi is still my favorite. This just seems to be a lot of nitpicking for the sake of nitpicking.
Some of it is nitpicking for sure, but a lot of it isn't. The attempts at comedy are really bad. They destroyed the Millenium Falcon because they decided using Matte paintings would look just as good, and we subsequently get Lando walking towards what is obviously a painting. That level of cheapness isn't what I'd expect from Star Wars, and that's just one example. Again, this is a movie that is redeemed by a great final act, but it's also a movie in which Luke Skywalker, Jedi Knight, can't escape from a net and is almost incinerated by Ewoks.
One point of this is, it's not as easy to make a perfect Star Wars movie as so many people think. For a franchise that arguably had two good movies, and four lesser ones, the expectations for the new films was set impossibly high.
And if you think that's too much nitpicking towards Jedi, I'll remind you people are still complaining about what Holdo is wearing and the lack of a proper send off for a guy in a fish mask, two years later.
I like Jedi despite its' flaws, just as I like the new films in the same way. A lot of people would be happier if they could enjoy the movies more for what they are, and lose the intense hatred over what they aren't.