stratman50th
Well-Known Member
Yup.....Then micro planning is the problem.
Yup.....Then micro planning is the problem.
Because when you have everything planned out like I do , it snowballs and ruins the whole day. It does not matter apparently I am the only person mad. I just pretty much cried my eyes out because a years worth of work and worry is down the drain. It makes me angry that my Dad now feels like he has ruined our trip when he did nothing Disney did it. I also have a little time picked but if you think they will show up in that little drop down time, I have a bridge I could sell you.
Ok so first take a deep breathe. You are stressing over a very minor change and that probably is stressing out the rest of the family.It is because I micro plan, everything effects something else, and no to go to Disney it literally takes us a whole year to pay off the trip, I am going to stay with him, but I already see the nightmare , missed fast passes taking 2 hours to find the family, if the hand not let me sit there for 10 months thinking it was going to work like usual I would have planned around it. i just can not figure out how to keep all the fastpasses and ADR's running like clockwork like they have to and Im upset.
taking 2 hours to find the family
Lol, I was in Greece 10 days ago, flight home got cancelled until the next day. Can only imagine how op would have handled thatI dunno...a quick text. "We're at Haunted Mansion waiting for you" would get it done a lot quicker than 2 hours. Or better yet, "We're on the monorail, so meet us up front at the bench with Walt and Mickey". Then the family could be reunited even quicker and on to your perfect planned day. Or if they are in a line that would give you and pops plenty of time to get to where they are and not impact their day if that would worry you.
Again, it's a change from what you have done, but not anything to ruin a years worth of planning. Let alone getting your elderly father so upset he is now feeling he is a burden.
I'd say that you are a very lucky person that none of your prior trips have ever had anything go wrong with them and this could be the first time something didn't go according to your perfect micro plan. We've had to adjust something every trip we've ever taken. Because things happen.
I know I am selfish because I want the only 9 days I have off the whole entire year to go as planned, I should not blame Disney for their greed one bit. Maybe if You worked 12 hour shifts with no breaks, I get no Holidays off, I work for a 24/7 company so I want those 9 days the way I spent planning, and yes, I try the meet me at so in so place at so in so time, and something always happens and in my family when things happen it's not Disney who gets blamed it's my fault, I messed it up I somehow did it on purpose. I still hear about our flight being late from five years ago and how we almost missed our connecting flight .I dunno...a quick text. "We're at Haunted Mansion waiting for you" would get it done a lot quicker than 2 hours. Or better yet, "We're on the monorail, so meet us up front at the bench with Walt and Mickey". Then the family could be reunited even quicker and on to your perfect planned day. Or if they are in a line that would give you and pops plenty of time to get to where they are and not impact their day if that would worry you.
Again, it's a change from what you have done, but not anything to ruin a years worth of planning. Let alone getting your elderly father so upset he is now feeling he is a burden.
I'd say that you are a very lucky person that none of your prior trips have ever had anything go wrong with them and this could be the first time something didn't go according to your perfect micro plan. We've had to adjust something every trip we've ever taken. Because things happen.
I know I am selfish because I want the only 9 days I have off the whole entire year to go as planned, I should not blame Disney for their greed one bit. Maybe if You worked 12 hour shifts with no breaks, I get no Holidays off, I work for a 24/7 company so I want those 9 days the way I spent planning, and yes, I try the meet me at so in so place at so in so time, and something always happens and in my family when things happen it's not Disney who gets blamed it's my fault, I messed it up I somehow did it on purpose. I still hear about our flight being late from five years ago and how we almost missed our connecting flight .
I know I am selfish because I want the only 9 days I have off the whole entire year to go as planned, I should not blame Disney for their greed one bit. Maybe if You worked 12 hour shifts with no breaks, I get no Holidays off, I work for a 24/7 company so I want those 9 days the way I spent planning, and yes, I try the meet me at so in so place at so in so time, and something always happens and in my family when things happen it's not Disney who gets blamed it's my fault, I messed it up I somehow did it on purpose. I still hear about our flight being late from five years ago and how we almost missed our connecting flight .
Yeah, I laugh too. I was a cop for 20 years. I had 3 Christmases off during that time. I would have liked some weekends and holidays off, but it was the job. You did what you did and didn't whine about it. My brother in law was a cop too. Christmas would be on the 22nd one year and the 20th the next. You dealt with it and moved on. So I don't take these cry me a river posts as serious as the OP. But my wife read over my shoulder and gave me a pat on the head for being as nice as I've been. LOLOld Yiddish proverb " man plans, God laughs".
I started my career in an oil refinery. 12 hour shifts, 24/7 out in the elements.
Everyone does what they have too
There are no foolproof plans.
You actually might enjoy yourself if you dial back the unrealistic expectations.
And no way would I let my family guilt me into this much stress. Maybe it's time to travel without the extra baggage.
I used to micro plan. Have you been to Disney before? Has your father? I am guessing yes! So relax, see what you see. This last trip I had it all planned out. But my mother in law and daughter both wanted to sleep an extra hour. I adjusted. Hey lightening storm just shut down Tower of Terror? Oh well I rode it before, missing it this trip is not world ending, I will survive...this happened countless times learn to go with the flow, and not fight the current. Your family will be happier and you will probably be healthier for it.It is because I micro plan, everything effects something else, and no to go to Disney it literally takes us a whole year to pay off the trip, I am going to stay with him, but I already see the nightmare , missed fast passes taking 2 hours to find the family, if the hand not let me sit there for 10 months thinking it was going to work like usual I would have planned around it. i just can not figure out how to keep all the fastpasses and ADR's running like clockwork like they have to and Im upset.
Yeah my mom is a retired registered nurse who worked for 40 years in a hospital so she worked many holidays.Yeah, I laugh too. I was a cop for 20 years. I had 3 Christmases off during that time. I would have liked some weekends and holidays off, but it was the job. You did what you did and didn't whine about it. My brother in law was a cop too. Christmas would be on the 22nd one year and the 20th the next. You dealt with it and moved on. So I don't take these cry me a river posts as serious as the OP. But my wife read over my shoulder and gave me a pat on the head for being as nice as I've been. LOL
I know I am selfish because I want the only 9 days I have off the whole entire year to go as planned, I should not blame Disney for their greed one bit. Maybe if You worked 12 hour shifts with no breaks, I get no Holidays off, I work for a 24/7 company so I want those 9 days the way I spent planning, and yes, I try the meet me at so in so place at so in so time, and something always happens and in my family when things happen it's not Disney who gets blamed it's my fault, I messed it up I somehow did it on purpose. I still hear about our flight being late from five years ago and how we almost missed our connecting flight .
Yeah, I laugh too. I was a cop for 20 years. I had 3 Christmases off during that time. I would have liked some weekends and holidays off, but it was the job. You did what you did and didn't whine about it. My brother in law was a cop too. Christmas would be on the 22nd one year and the 20th the next. You dealt with it and moved on. So I don't take these cry me a river posts as serious as the OP. But my wife read over my shoulder and gave me a pat on the head for being as nice as I've been. LOL
I like John Lennon's " life is what happens while you are busy making other plans "I'm so sorry your family makes you feel like that. That's rough.
There's this quote by one of the guys that founded Patagonia it's my favorite quote: it's not an adventure until something goes wrong.
Maybe stop "taking trips" and embrace the adventure instead ❤
I know I am selfish because I want the only 9 days I have off the whole entire year to go as planned, I should not blame Disney for their greed one bit. Maybe if You worked 12 hour shifts with no breaks, I get no Holidays off, I work for a 24/7 company so I want those 9 days the way I spent planning, and yes, I try the meet me at so in so place at so in so time, and something always happens and in my family when things happen it's not Disney who gets blamed it's my fault, I messed it up I somehow did it on purpose. I still hear about our flight being late from five years ago and how we almost missed our connecting flight .
Clearly, you work very hard to make a perfect trip for your family. Tell them to plan it if they can anticipate a flight delay. They should appreciate your efforts more.I know I am selfish because I want the only 9 days I have off the whole entire year to go as planned, I should not blame Disney for their greed one bit. Maybe if You worked 12 hour shifts with no breaks, I get no Holidays off, I work for a 24/7 company so I want those 9 days the way I spent planning, and yes, I try the meet me at so in so place at so in so time, and something always happens and in my family when things happen it's not Disney who gets blamed it's my fault, I messed it up I somehow did it on purpose. I still hear about our flight being late from five years ago and how we almost missed our connecting flight .
A fresh voice of reason...You won't have to wait around for hours. People stop making " much Ado about" nothing. We did this last August for a wheelchair we needed, we simply coordinated our arrival time with the company. We made it 30 minutes later than our time and was there to get it when he arrived.
Cell phones make it ridiculously easy.
Well , what is has done is changed a trip for 5 people into a trip 2 for people, so Disney has forever lost 3 customers as my Dad does not to ruin the trip for my daughter by making her give up park time to wait on a mobility device for him. I know that the thought process for Disney was force people to rent from Disney, and if that is the case the need to provide scooter rentals all the resorts with scooters that can be rented for length of stay. We do not get long trips 1 trip a year for 9 days is it, and my Dad does not us wasting 2 of those days because he can't walk long distances and get get the mobility device he needs in a timely manor. No matter how well you plan you are going to lose at least 2 hours of park time each on the first and last days.
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