They tested her and she had above average IQ and did just fine. She had the same "issues" that I had, if we are not interested in the subject, then we just shut our minds to it. She was not incapable of learning and had no disability, she just didn't care. I told them this and they STILL wanted to get her an IEP. Her grades where either As, or Fs, depending on if she bothered to put an effort in.
I share this to show that not every kid that has an IEP necessarily has some kind of disability. And that an IEP should not be used as some kind of proof of a disability. That it the WHOLE point of my posts. I don't know how some have misconstrued what I am saying.