speck76 said:
AS I know the direction that this was headed....
Some people don't feel the need to post "My thoughts and prayers go out to his family,,,what a terrible tragedy".....as in the end, it does not mean jack, except maybe it makes the member that posted that feel a little better about themself. Good for you. You have a spot reserved in the good part of heaven.
No, you are right, Speck. Not everyone needs to say those things.
I wouldn't have posted simply to say so. I've avoided posting in this thread at all until the level of disgusting posts got so high.
But then we have cold people like yourself who post right away "no big deal, happens a couple of times a year..." and your continued posts in this thread just shrugging it off.
It's just sick and unneccesary to say such a thing. Why do YOU feel the need to be so frigging cold about it? YES, we know, you are above it all, Speck - not only are you the smartest person on these boards (because you have statistics!) but you also are the most stoic, unemotional person here. We all bow down before you and your enlightened view of the world.
speck76 said:
Now, if you would like to do something useful, try getting the message to the family, as they most likely are not members here, and will never get your thoughtful condolences.
Well, I can't believe the VERY poor taste you presented in giving out the name and address, if in fact that really is it.
Your attempt to label me a false-bleeding heart would be laughable if you weren't so sad. I am NEVER one to be like that. However, IF IN FACT anyone who knows this family ever sees what is written here, I posted so they knew that people that say some of the things as you have in this thread are not normal and that they should see your words as what they are - simply a defense mechanism.
speck76 said:
*Edit....this is not a knock on those who believe in prayer....but don't judge those that don't and label them as heartless.
Neither was mine. I don't pray. And my judgement of "you" had nothing to do with prayer.
In fact, it was about several types of posts I have seen here. You were correct in assuming (even though I did not mention you) that yours were among that type of post that I felt was unnecessary.
I don't think ill of you because you didn't post some heartfelt posting, I think ill of you for posting such callous, heartless comments. You go out of your way to let everyone know just how little this affects you and how not a big deal it is - which is just in terrible, terrible taste.
You present this attutide quite often, Speck. I truly do hope that it's just your way of dealing with things, because otherwise your life must be very, very sad.
And yes, that is a judgement, since you not only put the evidence out there that you wish people to believe these things about you, you paint them red and stick them on your front porch.
So no, I don't fault you for not posting a gushy "feel good" post, but for feeling the need to repeatedly post your callous, unfeeling comments in this thread.
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