Yes and no. I don’t think it’s “normal” to us because we’re normal (relatively, right?
)... MJ never has a memory where he wasn’t famous, or performing. Not one.
That’s not normal. I can’t fathom what that would be like. I understood his want/need for Neverland, because I thought “He has the money, why not give himself the childhood favorites that he never had”. I understood why he gravitated to children.. for 2 reasons- because they couldn’t take advantage of him, and he wanted to help them, because he uniquely understood what they were going thru.
There was a time when I thought the accusations could be true, but then I watched person after person come out and defend him, and I thought about the way he always conducted himself.. I realized that I believed he was innocent. When you think about his passion for goodness, a better world, the planet.. all of it, the idea that he could hurt someone just doesn’t mesh with the sensitivity he showed, in public and in private (according to first hand accounts of friends).
I think he is one of the most, if not the most, misunderstood person of my lifetime. How could we be expected to understand him though? It’s too difficult to grasp all of it. There was nothing normal about his life in our terms of what normal is. I just don’t believe that it has to equal “wrong” or “child molester”. There’s too much that shows otherwise.