DisneyHead123
Well-Known Member
They may call that a booster seat, but it isn't. It is a full fledge car seat for older children. It is more expensive is difficult to handle and just a total rip off and frustration for older kids. When people say "Think about the children" they have to start remembering that mental growth is as important and connected to physical growth. Kids also have a much longer memory than people think. I know that I remember sitting on the front step and getting my picture taken in my new cowboy outfit when I was 4 years old just a mere 71 years ago. I remember it vividly. Kids don't quickly forget feeling embarrassed and inappropriately defined by age and size requirements.
The booster seat you offered can be installed backless, depending on size and weight of the kids
Some parents bring a bubblebum booster. Inflatable. Gives the kid enough extra height enabling safe use of cars seat belt.
On the one hand, I do worry about the effects of “safetyism”. On the other, I feel like car safety is not the particular place I want to address that issue. While they seem mundane because they’re so commonplace, cars are one of the most dangerous things in our society today. If it potentially saves a life? I am in favor of the tank like seats. I don’t think they’re embarrassing for kids because all their peers are in them too.
I do agree with this line of thinking in many other areas though. It’s hard as parent when you want to protect your kids, but teaching them resiliency and problem solving is also important, to an extent that is appropriate for the context they’re growing up in. (Kids growing up on the frontier 150 years ago obviously had a different experience than suburban kids in 2023, and that is true any way you slice it. But resiliency and independence can still be taught to a degree that’s appropriate to the current time and place.)
Anyways. Getting back on topic… if you’re a person who chooses to use the “big” seats… they’re a lot to travel with. Not impossible, but a big ol hassle for sure.