jloucks
Well-Known Member
Kids grow out of strollers & diapers way before they do car seats. In Texas, kid seats are the law until 8!! ...or 5 feet tall.Well, there is another way. We only had two children, two years apart. Even then we didn't travel any further than our car would carry us and didn't need a utility trailer to carry all the things that younger children needed. Don't get me wrong, if anyone wants to travel with a lot of backup equipment due to the younger years, by all mean do it. My wife and I agreed that until they were old enough to not require diapers or special feeding needs or strollers we would not go to WDW or any other intense type distant family locations. We just waited and when our youngest turned 6 we planned for and went on the best road trip/WDW vacation that we ever had. It was tremendous, they could go on all family rides and be aware of what was happening, could join in with us for discussions and even helped make decisions.
I know a lot of people think that it is a good experience with a small child, but I didn't think it was worth it to drag along all the things necessary, not always be able to ride attractions together, and have to stop often for extended rest breaks. Once a kid reaches a certain age and they start to get a little grouchy the carrot needed to stop it is to simply say, "if you keep acting that way there will be no pool time when we get back to the hotel". That always worked to extend their good behavior for the duration.
I even sponsored a family trip to WDW from Vermont where I paid for airfare, rented a six bedroom villa, rented two cars besides my car that I drove down to Florida, bought them all 7 day non-expiring tickets for the grandkids and their parents, of course, (there were three grandkids at the time) and the only provision I had was everyone had to be over 6 years old. I wanted them to remember that Grandpa brought them there. We still occasionally have discussions about that trip with them and they are now all in their 20's and amazingly all remember it in detail. Wonderful memories for all of us.
I mean, nowadays. There were no car seats when I was a kid. Or seatbelts. I kid you not, I used to ride on the dash of our old Chrysler. ...and in the bed of the pickup. Fun rando side story. I have been pulled over by the po po very rarely since my 20's. One of the few times was for having a pickup bed full of kids. Now, in my defense, I was in a state park going 10 (ten) miles an hour on a 10 speed limit road in a giant dodge dually. I was trying to give the kids and their friends a memorable experience. The park ranger didn't see it that way. Apparently, I could have driven, ever so slowly, off into a ditch.