What a great philosophy, "life is what one makes of it". Tell that to the victims of the Holocaust. Tell that to Africans captured by slave traders and brought over to the Americas against their will. Tell that to nearly every civilian killed in every war. Tell that to the gang-rape victim in India. Tell that to victims of child abuse, child molestation, child labor.
The simple fact in life is that those in positions of authority often abuse it, whether they are leading a country, an army, a family, or a business.
Life is what one makes of it? Go read some history and go get a clue.