According to your definition..taking care of a family, is "selfish"...
Not really sure which universe you live in? I guess i'll stop working overtime, its rude of me for accepting it, according to you, i stole it from someone else.
I will continue to be "selfish" as you say. My family is that important to me.
You do it your way, i'll do it mine. No issues and we both can be happy.
Do you call everyone names that you dont agree with? You have called me "selfish,and disprespectful (not a name but a demeaning comment none the less), what does that say about you?
You have the right to not like the way i do things, you also have the right to plan the way you want to-
But you dont know me, you are making judgements that are not only rude, but off base.