cymbaldiva
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Girls/Women are confusing!!!
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Talsonic
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Have to disagree!
I've been married for over 30 years to the same lady. Faith and trust is the key. I thought Peter Pan taught us all about that! Don't lie or "hide" things. If my wife "searched" my computer to discover if I had emailed or communicated with someone, I'd drop her like a hot rock. Also, she should do the same to me if I doubted her veracity. If you can't trust your girl friend then dump her and find someone else you can trust (and visa versa)! We don't argue because we don't lie!:wave:
Originally posted by Tramp
yeah...you ladies are cool daddio!
...something that comes with experience, (or is it age), is that certain things in a relationship are required to be classified on a 'need to know' basis....it's not being dishonest or mistrusting.....there is too much that can be misunderstood, misconstrued or misinterpreted...AND if seemingly understood at the moment, will undoubtedly be thrown in your face during the very next argument...:lol:
I've been married for over 30 years to the same lady. Faith and trust is the key. I thought Peter Pan taught us all about that! Don't lie or "hide" things. If my wife "searched" my computer to discover if I had emailed or communicated with someone, I'd drop her like a hot rock. Also, she should do the same to me if I doubted her veracity. If you can't trust your girl friend then dump her and find someone else you can trust (and visa versa)! We don't argue because we don't lie!:wave:
Re: Have to disagree!
Very well said Talsonic! John has NEVER ONCE accused me of anything at all and neither have I him. There is no reason for it. We respect each other's privacy (though we do share an AIM sccreen name, since we talk to all the same people anyhow) and neither of us does anything that, if found out, would get us into trouble.
Life's too short as it is.
Ken-Oh-Ki, has your GF maybe been hurt by someone in the past? Not that she should take it out on you, but it might explain that insecurity.
Very well said Talsonic! John has NEVER ONCE accused me of anything at all and neither have I him. There is no reason for it. We respect each other's privacy (though we do share an AIM sccreen name, since we talk to all the same people anyhow) and neither of us does anything that, if found out, would get us into trouble.
Life's too short as it is.
Ken-Oh-Ki, has your GF maybe been hurt by someone in the past? Not that she should take it out on you, but it might explain that insecurity.
WDWFREAK53
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Re: Re: Have to disagree!
I was thinking the same thing Erika (about her insecurity).
I dated a girl and I used to watch wrestling and I had a bunch of friends that would get together on Mondays and Thursdays to watch it...I invited my girlfriend (at the time) to come and join us...she worked Monday nights but she just refused on Thursdays because she hated wrestling. Well, to make a long story short, she thought that I wasn't "watching wrestling" but seeing another girl (because there was a girl in the group that was a friend of a friend that she had never met). Well, needless to say, we broke up because she didn't trust me and I was NOT about to live my life not having another female as a FRIEND for the rest of my life.
(hehehe, it's kinda funny though...because months later, me and that other girl really hit it off...) But, the point is, at the time, I had NO feelings for her and would NEVER cheat on anyone but my gf at the time did not TRUST me...
Trust is the backbone of a relationship...once you break that backbone...the relationship is just a piled lump that is not going to move forward.
I was thinking the same thing Erika (about her insecurity).
I dated a girl and I used to watch wrestling and I had a bunch of friends that would get together on Mondays and Thursdays to watch it...I invited my girlfriend (at the time) to come and join us...she worked Monday nights but she just refused on Thursdays because she hated wrestling. Well, to make a long story short, she thought that I wasn't "watching wrestling" but seeing another girl (because there was a girl in the group that was a friend of a friend that she had never met). Well, needless to say, we broke up because she didn't trust me and I was NOT about to live my life not having another female as a FRIEND for the rest of my life.
(hehehe, it's kinda funny though...because months later, me and that other girl really hit it off...) But, the point is, at the time, I had NO feelings for her and would NEVER cheat on anyone but my gf at the time did not TRUST me...
Trust is the backbone of a relationship...once you break that backbone...the relationship is just a piled lump that is not going to move forward.
WDWFREAK53
Well-Known Member
but I do agree Ken....
girls make me insane sometimes
One minute they are so secure and love life and everything in it...and the next...they want something DIFFERENT...
girls make me insane sometimes
One minute they are so secure and love life and everything in it...and the next...they want something DIFFERENT...
tenchu
Well-Known Member
Originally posted by Tramp
...I have nothing more to say in this thread...don't know why I ventured outside the 'Ryan' thread where at least some semblance of a sense of humor remains....
Sense of humour?
Every word said on that thread is deadly serious!
And to the original question: Tell her to stop being paranoid! (But a bit gentler than that!)
Tramp
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LMAO...there ain't nuttin funny about a guy who can't spell the word, "humor."
...paranoid?...are you talking about me...you're always saying that about me aren't ya?...I know you talk behind my back about my paranoia...I know you do. I'm not paranoid so stop telling all your friends that I am.:hammer:
WDWFREAK53
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Ken...I just have to tell you that some girls are just insecure...it's in their nature. That girl that I was talking about in my post is STILL like that to this day. If a nice looking girl walks by (even if you don't even notice her), she'll make some negative remark about her...and she STILL will not let her new bf even around another girl alone...but...she'll hang out with me (without letting her bf know)
Whoa.. hold on she sent her picture to some guy?? Thats just wrong. I have known people online for about 3 years and they are like 18-20 and they are girls and they have my picture... but I'm not dating anyone.. Dude sounds like your gf needs to take a class on common sense. No offense there...:wave:
Tramp
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Ken:
...ya have to admit that the introduction of the internet has tested the lines that one can cross without violating the spirit and commitment of a relationship...seems to me that those lines have to be determined by the individuals involved...not by some self-proclaimed morality cops.
...it's tough on kids today when the standards of behavior are constantly changing...after all, we had a President who redefined the definition of s e x...and with it went a change in the definition of fidelity too...where do you find a role model on the internet?
....I only buy "Playboy" for the articles, ya know!:lol:
...ya have to admit that the introduction of the internet has tested the lines that one can cross without violating the spirit and commitment of a relationship...seems to me that those lines have to be determined by the individuals involved...not by some self-proclaimed morality cops.
...it's tough on kids today when the standards of behavior are constantly changing...after all, we had a President who redefined the definition of s e x...and with it went a change in the definition of fidelity too...where do you find a role model on the internet?
....I only buy "Playboy" for the articles, ya know!:lol:
LoL!!!!!!!!!!!!
Actually I LOVE the net!!! Im EXTREMELY SHY!!! If someone saw me at the movies or something and wanted me to start a conversation with them... I couldn't do it!!! The net is kinda like a shield for me to get to know someone without me being so shy.
And I figured that if my cousin could meet his present wife on the net and be happier than I have ever seen him, then it wouldnt hurt to use the net to meet ppl.
