No need to do the "as a friend" schtick.
I think the premise of your passive-aggressive question is wrong. It isn't a question of fault. Lucas made the original Star Wars trilogy, and lots of people liked it. Whose "fault" was that?
And then Lucas made the PT, and many fans loved it while other fans were disappointed. Again, not a question of fault, but of creative direction. Some people didn't get it. Others got it and just did't like it.
Disney's trilogy and one-offs were likewise widely popular but also disappointed some fans (for different reasons). There are loads of kids who came into Star Wars though these films, and they're pretty passionate about them. No "fault" here.
What is a question of fault is the behavior of the fandom. Hostility, gatekeeping, aggression, bullying (of actors, producers, and fans) toward anything and anyone having to do with whatever Star Wars they found disappointing.
These folks, in my opinion, do share some fault/blame for diminishing what could be a vibrant fan community and ecosystem of great Star Wars content. Rather than creating and maintaining a big tent, they've worked to run people out and burn things down.
When you're invested in the failure of others, even if you win you're on the wrong side.