Honestly, nothing will convince you that FP+ doesn’t tie people down as much as you think.
I just wish people were more honest with their answers to start with. Would make things a lot more direct.
Not being bothered by something is very different than 'never happening' or dismissing other's situations as extremes.
"we never wait more than 20mins"
"we only use FP..."
"we never have those problems..."
or worse.. inferring children are spoiled.
Are all just people with selective memory because maybe the exceptions just didn't bother them in their circumstance. But they leap from that to downplay other scenarios as impractical or corner cases.
All my kids are grown and out of the house now.. and the majority of my recent trips have been solo or couple missions. So I can happily ignore the woes of others if I choose to bury my head.