For me, it was normal to be able to secure a good selection of prebooked FastPasses thirty days out. This was the case across multiple trips taken between 2017 and 2020. My norm may not be yours or others’, but whereas I’m willing to accept that there are a plurality of experiences out there, you won’t budge on the issue.
No, the difference is when talking about the system AS A WHOLE, you can't wash away all aspects just because not everyone is burdened the same.
What is the same is.. if that constraint didn't exist, nobody would experience it.
This reeks of the scenario where people who travel solo or as a couple can't grasp the struggles that a family or larger group have because "I never have a problem getting an ADR... " "I never have problem getting FPs"... yes, because finding an availability slot for a group of 2 is a lot easier than fitting a group of 5.
That doesn't mean the family's struggles don't exist, or that the constraints being applied have consequences just because some people don't feel the impact the same.
Or the people that buy their way out of a problem by doing things like a desert party... and then act like crowding or loss of viewing areas isn't a big deal... because hrmph... it doesn't impact them...
Stop thinking about 'what I experience' and decide if the scenarios being described are actually legitimate or not.
Or you really believe no one ever has problems getting FPs, and dining schedules, and show schedules, and parks, all on their first try... whenever they get around to it.