Doing the wave with Magic Friends

[DisneySam]

Grrr... I think a bit of my anger over my situation with my friend is coming back... :-/ I don't like being angry.

I was doing so well earlier today...

((HUGS)) Kat. I'm here too if you need to talk or even just vent.

((Hugs))

If you need to talk about it...I'm here. I've had my own friend drama...especially lately too.

(Don't you wish there was an age where you just stopped having drama...it would be so lovely...)

O-M-G YES! My BFF is having some very high school like drama with one of our other friends. Its just simply rediculous and over nothing. My BFF is so upset about it (essentially the other girl is just giving her the silent treatment, not talking to her at all.) It just makes me so mad, becase its over nothing and it's really hurting my BFF.

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Hey Stephie! How are you today?

 

[mpoppins76]

Hey Stephie! How are you today?

Doing good, just got back from running a couple of errands. I want to making myself useful and start washing up the baby's clothes, but you aren't supposed to use fabric softener. Someone suggested those dryer ball thingies so I went out and grabbed some from BB&B

How are you?

 

[k.hunter30]

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:wave:
:kiss:

{{hugs}} I was thinking of you and your situation earlier today. :kiss:

Hola!

Thanks, Sweetie.

((Hugs))

If you need to talk about it...I'm here. I've had my own friend drama...especially lately too.

(Don't you wish there was an age where you just stopped having drama...it would be so lovely...)

I thought I've already got past the drama in my life with friends! That should have ended after college, right?! Boooo!

Pretty much, the jist of it [but leaving a lot out that, in my mind (Steph, what do you think?) makes it even worse...] is this...

Last summer/fall a very close friend asked me what baby names I liked. I shared with her several boy options and one girl option (my grandmother's name). She then shared with me her two girl options, she did not have a boy option. She get's pregnant. ...insert a whole bunch of other crud... Then, while in a big group, someone asks her what name she is going with and she says the name I picked. I'm shocked. For more reasons than one, my heart is breaking. I mean... I felt like I could feel it shattering to pieces... I say defeatedly, "That... was.... going to be... my girls'... name." She doesn't blink and eye.

 

[Dukeblue1227]

(Don't you wish there was an age where you just stopped having drama...it would be so lovely...)

Women...



(I'm kidding, I clearly am, trying not to be so much anymore because I know it was a large part of my own personal problems... but I used to be probably the biggest friggin drama queen which is embarassing... so I'm trying to stop... )

 

[nibblesandbits]

((HUGS)) Kat. I'm here too if you need to talk or even just vent.



O-M-G YES! My BFF is having some very high school like drama with one of our other friends. Its just simply rediculous and over nothing. My BFF is so upset about it (essentially the other girl is just giving her the silent treatment, not talking to her at all.) It just makes me so mad, becase its over nothing and it's really hurting my BFF.


Hey Stephie! How are you today?

I swear...girls are simply rediculous sometimes...why can't we (as a gender) just stop being petty all the time and just get over things...

God it makes me so mad sometimes.

 

[Dukeblue1227]

just stop being petty all the time

I thought this said "pretty" and so i was going to ask when you started... :shrug:

 

[nibblesandbits]

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:kiss:


Thanks, Sweetie.


I thought I've already got past the drama in my life with friends! That should have ended after college, right?! Boooo!

Pretty much, the jist of it [but leaving a lot out that, in my mind (Steph, what do you think?) makes it even worse...] is this...

Last summer/fall a very close friend asked me what baby names I liked. I shared with her several boy options and one girl option (my grandmother's name). She then shared with me her two girl options, she did not have a boy option. She get's pregnant. ...insert a whole bunch of other crud... Then, while in a big group, someone asks her what name she is going with and she says the name I picked. I'm shocked. For more reasons than one, my heart is breaking. I mean... I felt like I could feel it shattering to pieces... I say defeatedly, "That... was.... going to be... my girls'... name." She doesn't blink and eye.

Oh sweetie...

I'm so sorry.

A true friend would never pick the name that you were going to name your kid...especially without clearing that it's ok with you. Sounds like, unfortunately, she doesn't care a lot about you.

I say, even though it can be devestating...just roll with it...and know that you can still name your (hopefully) future child that...since it does have meaning for you and it's what you had planned the whole time. If she throws a stink about it later...I say, ignore her about the situation or tell her that it's ok the two be named the same thing. There are plenty of other _______s in the world.

Although, I highly suspect that you two might not be friends for much longer anyway...you don't want someone like that in your life. Or let's put it this way, you don't deserve to have a "friend" like that in your life...who doesn't care about your feelings.

 

[nibblesandbits]

Women...



(I'm kidding, I clearly am, trying not to be so much anymore because I know it was a large part of my own personal problems... but I used to be probably the biggest friggin drama queen which is embarassing... so I'm trying to stop... )

:lol:

You? A drama queen? No...:lookaroun

 

[mpoppins76]

:wave:
:kiss:


Thanks, Sweetie.


I thought I've already got past the drama in my life with friends! That should have ended after college, right?! Boooo!

Pretty much, the jist of it [but leaving a lot out that, in my mind (Steph, what do you think?) makes it even worse...] is this...

Last summer/fall a very close friend asked me what baby names I liked. I shared with her several boy options and one girl option (my grandmother's name). She then shared with me her two girl options, she did not have a boy option. She get's pregnant. ...insert a whole bunch of other crud... Then, while in a big group, someone asks her what name she is going with and she says the name I picked. I'm shocked. For more reasons than one, my heart is breaking. I mean... I felt like I could feel it shattering to pieces... I say defeatedly, "That... was.... going to be... my girls'... name." She doesn't blink and eye.

Yeah I think alot of what was left out makes it waaaay worse.

 

[k.hunter30]

Oh sweetie...

I'm so sorry.

A true friend would never pick the name that you were going to name your kid...especially without clearing that it's ok with you. Sounds like, unfortunately, she doesn't care a lot about you.

I say, even though it can be devestating...just roll with it...and know that you can still name your (hopefully) future child that...since it does have meaning for you and it's what you had planned the whole time. If she throws a stink about it later...I say, ignore her about the situation or tell her that it's ok the two be named the same thing. There are plenty of other _______s in the world.

Although, I highly suspect that you two might not be friends for much longer anyway...you don't want someone like that in your life. Or let's put it this way, you don't deserve to have a "friend" like that in your life...who doesn't care about your feelings.

I'm having a hard time struggling with this... I would feel bad walking away from a friendship. I feel like I should forgive her and move on. I'm just struggling with getting to that point... with letting go. And I hate that feeling.

 

[DisneySam]

Doing good, just got back from running a couple of errands. I want to making myself useful and start washing up the baby's clothes, but you aren't supposed to use fabric softener. Someone suggested those dryer ball thingies so I went out and grabbed some from BB&B

How are you?

YAY for a trip to BBB I love wondering around there.
I'm doing alright thanks! Nothing new or exciting to report.

:wave:
:kiss:


Thanks, Sweetie.


I thought I've already got past the drama in my life with friends! That should have ended after college, right?! Boooo!

Pretty much, the jist of it [but leaving a lot out that, in my mind (Steph, what do you think?) makes it even worse...] is this...

Last summer/fall a very close friend asked me what baby names I liked. I shared with her several boy options and one girl option (my grandmother's name). She then shared with me her two girl options, she did not have a boy option. She get's pregnant. ...insert a whole bunch of other crud... Then, while in a big group, someone asks her what name she is going with and she says the name I picked. I'm shocked. For more reasons than one, my heart is breaking. I mean... I felt like I could feel it shattering to pieces... I say defeatedly, "That... was.... going to be... my girls'... name." She doesn't blink and eye.

(((HUGS))) Kat.

Women...



(I'm kidding, I clearly am, trying not to be so much anymore because I know it was a large part of my own personal problems... but I used to be probably the biggest friggin drama queen which is embarassing... so I'm trying to stop... )

Joe- you are so not a drama queen.

I swear...girls are simply rediculous sometimes...why can't we (as a gender) just stop being petty all the time and just get over things...

God it makes me so mad sometimes.

Me too and it's seriously over NOTHING. So rediculous. Plus she knows eventhough she did nothing wrong, my BFF would take total responsibility and apologize wholeheartedly. Gah!

 

[k.hunter30]

Yeah I think alot of what was left out makes it waaaay worse.

 

[PotteryGal]

Hello everyone! :wave:

Oh sweetie...

I'm so sorry.

A true friend would never pick the name that you were going to name your kid...especially without clearing that it's ok with you. Sounds like, unfortunately, she doesn't care a lot about you.

I say, even though it can be devestating...just roll with it...and know that you can still name your (hopefully) future child that...since it does have meaning for you and it's what you had planned the whole time. If she throws a stink about it later...I say, ignore her about the situation or tell her that it's ok the two be named the same thing. There are plenty of other _______s in the world.

Although, I highly suspect that you two might not be friends for much longer anyway...you don't want someone like that in your life. Or let's put it this way, you don't deserve to have a "friend" like that in your life...who doesn't care about your feelings.

I see Nibbs and I are of the same mind on this....((Hugs)) again for Kat. :kiss:

Also more ((Hugs)) for Joe today - treasure all those good memories of your grandfather, they will give you such comfort in the days to come.

 

[mpoppins76]

YAY for a trip to BBB I love wondering around there.
I'm doing alright thanks! Nothing new or exciting to report.

Unfortunately, there's no wandering for me these days. Since I need to limit my walking, I pretty much have to go in for what I need and that's it :hammer:

 

[DisneySam]

Oh sweetie...

I'm so sorry.

A true friend would never pick the name that you were going to name your kid...especially without clearing that it's ok with you. Sounds like, unfortunately, she doesn't care a lot about you.

I say, even though it can be devestating...just roll with it...and know that you can still name your (hopefully) future child that...since it does have meaning for you and it's what you had planned the whole time. If she throws a stink about it later...I say, ignore her about the situation or tell her that it's ok the two be named the same thing. There are plenty of other _______s in the world.

Although, I highly suspect that you two might not be friends for much longer anyway...you don't want someone like that in your life. Or let's put it this way, you don't deserve to have a "friend" like that in your life...who doesn't care about your feelings.

I couldn't have said it better.

 

[mpoppins76]

{{hugs}}

I just think it makes what she did and the way she's treating you that much cruddier.

 

[PotteryGal]

I'm having a hard time struggling with this... I would feel bad walking away from a friendship. I feel like I should forgive her and move on. I'm just struggling with getting to that point... with letting go. And I hate that feeling.

I'd be more concerned if you did just drop and move on like nothing happened....there's a grieving process when it's someone you consider a friend, and they do something like this. That being said, it doesn't mean she's someone you can trust and spend time with anymore...she's already proven that isn't possible with HER behavior, not yours.

 

[k.hunter30]

Also more ((Hugs)) for Joe today - treasure all those good memories of your grandfather, they will give you such comfort in the days to come.

Absolutely.

{{hugs}}

I just think it makes what she did and the way she's treating you that much cruddier.

You're probably right...

I mean, honestly, I can't even BEGIN to wrap my head around what she did, taking into consideration everything. I can't fathom how a person could do that...

 

[k.hunter30]

I'd be more concerned if you did just drop and move on like nothing happened....there's a grieving process when it's someone you consider a friend, and they do something like this. That being said, it doesn't mean she's someone you can trust and spend time with anymore...she's already proven that isn't possible with HER behavior, not yours.

Ha! Joe, are you reading this?

I guess you're right Jenny. I just sometimes have a hard time letting myself think it's okay to be hurt and upset sometimes...

 

[Dukeblue1227]

Hello everyone! :wave:


I see Nibbs and I are of the same mind on this....((Hugs)) again for Kat. :kiss:

Also more ((Hugs)) for Joe today - treasure all those good memories of your grandfather, they will give you such comfort in the days to come.

Thanks Jenny... I appreciate that...