Sorry to hear it. Unfortunately, my first trip wasn't until 2003, so I missed out on the apparent golden age. But I indeed do wonder what was different in the golden age? Was it truly better? Were the cast members friendlier? Were the hotels somehow better?
Quite honestly, I wonder if it's just a nostalgia thing. For example, I have nice memories of many places: my old grade school and high school, my old college, a zoo I went to as a kid, and dozens of other places. I've been back to some of them since, and I am usually astounded at how mediocre they actually are.
Although I have nothing to compare it to, many of the years of the golden age did not have (from what I understand) Animal Kingdom, abundant onsite hotels, thrill rides at Disney MGM Studios until the later years, fastpass, as much healthy/unique dining, Soarin', changing scenarios in Star Tours, Toy Story Mania, Buzz Lightyears spin, Monsters Laugh Floor, Agent P adventures, Keys to the Kingdom adventures, a new Fantasyland, Rock & Roller Coaster, Tower of Terror, Lights Motors Action, Star Wars and other special weekends and festivals, Magical Express, etc . . . I, for example, greatly miss the Jeremy Irons narration at Spaceship Earth and the fun narration on the blue line, but they probably weren't as great as I remember them in the windmills of my mind.
I wondered long and hard about DVC before buying in, but my family and I now love it. Our 1 bedroom villas are far roomier than standard rooms, some with 2 bathrooms, and a washer & dryer to cut down on the need to pack so much. In 3 years, we've done 25 nights, mostly in 1 bedrooms, and we've only paid about $2,100 in maintenance dues, which means we spent about $84 a night. I could sell my Baylake points tomorrow for the about the same price I bought them at. I like the place now, a lot, but I indeed do wish I could have seen the place in the golden age of 1981 to 1997. I just truly wonder why so many people thought it was so great them and so mediocre now. Perhaps you could enlighten me.