Please don't take offense to this, but since you have joined, whenever you've posted one of these messages all I can think of is this:
You wonder why you can't relate to people is because your tagline says "Unapologetically a Disney apologist"
That basically wipes out at least 50% of the forum members around these parts from agreeing with anything you say, whether that is fair or not is a whole other question.
The other 50% can see both sides of the discussion, but it's tough to agree with you when you interject with comments like the one I have quoted. Particularly the bold.
As a consumer, a good company allows their customers voices to be heard. We are not a bunch of sheep. This is not a utilitarian dictatorship. If we are unsatisfied with something we have a right to voice our opinion. If Disney wants to listen, it will help their business. If they want to stick their head in the sand and make no adjustments, over time, you are going to lose fans.
How do you think DCA got it's refurb? People complained. Why do you think the MCU is so successful? Because they actually listen to what fans want to see. Fans wanted Hulk/Hulkbuster fight for a long time. Look at the last Avengers trailer.
See companies that interact with their guests and listen tend to stay in business longer than ones who don't. If you truly feel that Disney owes you nothing and that the consumer should simply shut up and be thankful for what's coming, then IMO, you've now lost 95-99% of this site's members.
There are people who wanted Frozen in the parks. Those people got their voices heard. Now it's an entirely different debate whether or not Disney is handling it properly, but the fact that you simply don't understand some Disney fans nor can sympathize with old-time Epcot fans tells me that you're going to have a tough time finding agreement with the majority on this site.
That's not a negative. Not saying having a minority opinion is bad, and I'm not encouraging you to change your stance, but stop acting all surprised. Please stop whining about how you don't understand the mindset of some Disney fans. You've gotten into arguments with people and then have no idea why. Well, apologizes for being frank but, it's because you have your head in the sand...