There was no LGBT character in the movie Barbie. That was actually a surprise, as in the commercials it looked like the kid we now know as Alan was supposed to be gay. But he wasn't. There was no sexuality at all in Barbie, really. Which now makes so much sense because Barbie and Ken don't even know why they're supposed to stay over at the Dream House together, even if Ken has "all the genitals".
But there was not a single LGBT reference or character in Barbie. And it was rated PG-13. So, even if Alan had been explained as being gay in the movie, which he wasn't.... what's the problem? I don't see one.
I don't know that I've ever voiced a concern about TLM being "woke". It's certainly been a box office disappointment, but I didn't see it and haven't weighed in on the movie itself, aside from its financial performance.
That said, I have an opinion on changing the race of Ariel to anyone other than a northern European white girl. Which is that it's borderline offensive to do so, just as it would be offensive to get a swarthy Brazillian actor to play a Chinese warrior, or get a blue eyed Norwegian guy to play an Egyptian phoaroh. I say that as a Scandinavian-American who knows from my childhood that Hans Christian Andersen is one of the most famous writers to come out of Scandinavia, and his story The Little Mermaid is an important one in that culture. But that's just me and my childhood memories of my grandma reading us Hans Christian Andersen, it's a bit jarring for an old Swede like myself.
But if Disney could have made a lot of money on that new version of Ariel where anyone can be any race based on a traditional Danish fairy tale, then that would have been great. I loved that multi-racial version of Cinderella they did for TV in the 90's, so sometimes that kind of
"re-imagining of an old classic" stuff can work brilliantly.
The reality is that Disney failed to make any money on this latest version of The Little Mermaid. The overseas box office in particular was atrocious for it, although its American box office was modestly successful.