May I break up this line of discussion with news that my FIL is in the ER with breakthrough Covid?
He and MIL were vaccinated with Pfizer in March. They had not gotten their boosters because "they were waiting on Kaiser." On Tuesday, they started not feeling well and got tested. At first MIL seemed worse off and she was advised to get the monoclonal antibodies, which she received on Saturday. By Sunday she was feeling much better. Doctor did not advise FIL to get them, and then when he started going downhill late on Sunday they were told it was now too late for him to get them. MIL is unhappy with the advice she was getting from his doctor and called the Covid nurse who advised her to take him to the ER so someone could actually see him. FIL has Type 1 diabetes and relied on medication and so he is also generally not in good health (obese, etc.). WA is doing contract tracing and since they don't go a lot of places, they think they got it at church on Sunday.
This is not a good way to be feeling, waiting for news. Don't do it to your family members. Get vaccinated, get boosted, especially if you are immunocompromised. Be proactive. Be honest with your kids. MIL didn't share she didn't feel well enough to watch a tv program before she got the monoclonal until just today. You aren't protecting anyone by downplaying how poorly you feel.
*sigh*