2gether said:
I hope I am this successful with my kids when they are this old. My dd is just 18 mo, and she's still wandering away. Sometimes it takes all our energy just to keep up!:hammer:
It took consistent rules that he understood the consequences of disobeying. I instilled a love of reading by reading to him every night starting the day he came home from the hospital [great 'bonding' time when he didn't understand]. When he started correcting me in the Seuss stories, I had him start reading them to me instead. Once he didn't need correcting, he started reading "chapter" books on his own [his first complete book on his own was the first Harry Potter book!]. If he's doing something wrong or inappropriate, I count to three. If I reach three and he hasn't stopped, he loses his before bed reading time that night. After losing it once, it was
years before he "pushed the envelope" again, this time after I got to three and told him he'd lost that night's reading time he kept doing whatever it was and I counted to three again - He was really shocked when he lost the next night's time! Since then, I've never made it to three :animwink:
I've only ever hit him once in his life. He was just into toddler stage and was playing with an electrical cord that was plugged in! I yelled first, but he didn't let go. I swatted his hand away from the cord and then we spent the next couple of hours consoling each other. I'm not sure which of us was more upset.
Being consistent in rules is the most important thing. He knows the rules and knows I don't waffle on the punishment. As a result, he's a really polite, kind-hearted kid and his teachers love having him in class.
As you can probably tell, I'm a very proud dad! :lol:
WannabeBelle: Thank you, but it's not that hard to pay constant attention to the most important person in my life. DS10 is all there is...