See, all of that sounds amazing! But the fact remains, the only things in your post that would really be different are the stuff you got at check in and the balcony sitting. Everything else is available to EVERY guest to WDW, even those staying off property.
The monorail, the boat, etc. I've never stayed at the GF, and yet I've done them all. I've never eaten at V&A'a, but I could, no matter where I slept at night.
Don't get me wrong. As my first post earlier in this thread says, DO WHAT YOU WANT!. I support your choice to stay at the GF! I would prefer the poly of contemp for the same money, but see, that's just personal preference. I also wouldn't mind saving $2000 and skipping the balcony and champagne either. I don't need the little extras to make it magical. Is it cool to have them? Heck yeah!
I agree Disney's value and mod resorts are a total bargain. You get so many perks (Disney theming, Disney transportation, and EMH)
Any of Disney's resort guests (even those staying at a value or mod) are allowed to shop, dine, use the transportation or spa facilities at any of the Disney Resorts. (Of course pool hopping is not allowed.)
I hear what you're saying and agree that financially it makes more sense to stay somewhere else as you can enjoy many of these features, but I would argue that there's a luxury factor involved that walking to the monorail or boat from your resort is not the same as riding them as a non resort guest. A person can wear a Timex and it will provide as good or better accuracy as a more expensive watch, but there is a satifaction that comes from wearing a Panerai (or other watch) that the Timex doesn't give me (unless it was a gift from my on or wife). This may be a poor analogy but there's something awesome about the litte extras that make the whole experience more enjoayable, maybe that's the snob in me coming through. I enjoy your earlier response and have a great day!
And that my friend is the correct answer.
You enjoy the pampering and if that helps make your vacation more pleasant & magical then by means go for it! And enjoy.
Just recognize that everyone cannot easily afford to pay for those little extra touches.
And then there are a few like myself that can easily afford to stay CL at any resort but choose not to. I could really care less about those extra touches.
They do not add a lot to my vacation.
I just enjoy being at Disney and staying a resort that reminds me I am at Disney.
I travel a lot for pleasure. I would rather stay at the Grand hotel on Mackinac Island, Mi. (That is the hotel opened in 1881 and in 1980
Somewhere In Time was filmed at Grand Hotel and stared Christopher Reeve, Jane Seymour, and Christopher Plummer.) than the GF
If I want to stay at a Poly themed resort I can go to Hawaii.
Disney's value resorts are the only resorts with the giant Disney Icons.
Where else can one find Donald Duck or Mickey Mouse at the pool?