Anybody here clearly understand women at all? I would really like to know.
Here is my situation:
I broke up with my girlfriend, who is a sophomore (I'm a junior) of eight/nine months.. Actually, she broke up with me. We went on a date on December 27th and I even asked if we were okay (relationship wise) and she said definitely. On January 2nd, we saw each at school, talked, laughed, and kissed each other good-bye as we went home. That night she e-mails me and the e-mail said: "I have been thinking about this for months" and basically in summary she was breaking up with me though she wouldn't say why. I was totally crushed and I feel worse now. Not only did she lie to me a dozen times on our dates about the relationship situation but she immediately went out with a senior she decided to go to a school dance with (I couldn't because of Confirmation retreat) as soon as we broke up.
My relationship have really sucked. One girl, Katie, I asked out but she totally blew me off by saying yes when I asked her out but the next day lying to me about her being too busy. This was at the end of January.
Another girl, Vanessa, I asked out and she said she would have to check her schedule but said sure. I was totally because she was really cute. Next day, I go to talk to her and she just says, "Yeah, I don't think this will work out". I being the nice guy I am (aka idiot) I backed off and didn't ask why. This was at the beginning of February.
Three weeks ago, I finally got the nerve to e-mail this girl and tell her how I felt about her and if she wanted to go out. She said it was really sweet but she was dating someone else at the time. I felt a little embarassed but we are still pretty good friends.
And just this week, I asked out Samantha on Thursday. She said sure then I called her on Friday. She had track, so I left a message. I called her today and talked to her for awhile about stuff. Then I began to talk about our date and she says, "Yeah, I figuaring we could just be friends because I really like this other guy". I talked for a minute more with her and said I had to go. I really didn't.
Why do girls do this? Why don't they just say no or something like that instead of leading me on and just leaving me hanging after a day or two?
Here is my situation:
I broke up with my girlfriend, who is a sophomore (I'm a junior) of eight/nine months.. Actually, she broke up with me. We went on a date on December 27th and I even asked if we were okay (relationship wise) and she said definitely. On January 2nd, we saw each at school, talked, laughed, and kissed each other good-bye as we went home. That night she e-mails me and the e-mail said: "I have been thinking about this for months" and basically in summary she was breaking up with me though she wouldn't say why. I was totally crushed and I feel worse now. Not only did she lie to me a dozen times on our dates about the relationship situation but she immediately went out with a senior she decided to go to a school dance with (I couldn't because of Confirmation retreat) as soon as we broke up.
My relationship have really sucked. One girl, Katie, I asked out but she totally blew me off by saying yes when I asked her out but the next day lying to me about her being too busy. This was at the end of January.
Another girl, Vanessa, I asked out and she said she would have to check her schedule but said sure. I was totally because she was really cute. Next day, I go to talk to her and she just says, "Yeah, I don't think this will work out". I being the nice guy I am (aka idiot) I backed off and didn't ask why. This was at the beginning of February.
Three weeks ago, I finally got the nerve to e-mail this girl and tell her how I felt about her and if she wanted to go out. She said it was really sweet but she was dating someone else at the time. I felt a little embarassed but we are still pretty good friends.
And just this week, I asked out Samantha on Thursday. She said sure then I called her on Friday. She had track, so I left a message. I called her today and talked to her for awhile about stuff. Then I began to talk about our date and she says, "Yeah, I figuaring we could just be friends because I really like this other guy". I talked for a minute more with her and said I had to go. I really didn't.
Why do girls do this? Why don't they just say no or something like that instead of leading me on and just leaving me hanging after a day or two?