I think one of the biggest problems here is, that no matter how hard you try, there is just really no adequate way to convey "what was" to those who've never experienced it before. It's all a matter of perspective.
I remember how things used to be, but for the sake of my own sanity, and the trip quality for my wife and children, I tend to load up on the Magical Kool-Aide before each trip. I do notice the problems while there, but I'm not about to let it ruin an otherwise great vacation. And, ultimately, it's not about me, it's about my family. That's why I come here to gripe a little now and then. I complain because I GIVE A CRAP.
Kool-Aide-wise, our last trip in July was, in my memory anyway, the best ever so far. There were 13 of us, we stayed at AoA in family suites, Oldest DD got engaged in front of the Castle on her 21st birthday, and I could go on and on. The only thing I remember operationally that went "wrong" the whole trip was that RnRC was down one day and we were told that it would be for the whole day. It actually was brought back online later that day and we were able to ride it twice. I think, we too, are actually lucky ones 'cause we have never experienced any major problems when we've been on attractions in all our visits.
But, with the way things seem to be going, for how long will we, or any of the rest of you who've been so lucky for that matter, continue to be that way...?
At some point, somethins' gotta give.