I couldn't disagree with you more. Like other posters have said the number isn't 3. It's like 1.5. And we are talking about "millions" of people that come to WDW every year and you think having 1.5 places that are adults only for a few hours a night are enough? You have huge groups of people that come to WDW without kids. And if I want to stay on property and get away from all the strollers and backpacks and screaming there should be plenty of places for me to choose from. My hope is that the Edison is going to be like the one in LA if so no kids belong there at all. And by having more adult places isn't going to impact people with kids. Because there will still be more stuff for parents to do with their kids then they will have time for.
I am sorry you are tortured by Trader Sam's, but two 21+ venues in a resort the size of WDW is truthfully not enough...That is why Trader Sam's is at capacity every night. V&A's is a restaurant, not an adult only lounge... Right noe you are seeing it through your lens, but when the kids are grown and gone and you want to have an Adult Disney trip, you will feel the same way we do... The resort is overwhelmingly family friendly, but to have a few adult respites is a plus... it would not be taking anything away from you, only adding something for those of us without kids...
I'm 39. My kid is 6. I've gone to WDW every year of my life minus the first 4 of his. So I have been on many more trips to Disney with adults than I have been as a mother. They are very, very different types of trips.
I'm not disagreeing that a lot of adults need a break from the stroller crowd!
Hear me out-
I don't think me and my kid are in the majority, but I do think there is a lot more of families now who's kids are accustomed to being in more adult settings, and know how to act in them. There are a lot of people who wait to have kids until later than previous generations, and who choose a more urban lifestyle and expose their children to several types of scenarios.
My kid has been ordering steamers and sushi etc since age 3. Sure he still eats chicken fingers some times, but he enjoys our "fancy nights" as he calls them. When you have a lounge or restaurant that has a menu of more expensive drinks and food, void of any of the chicken finger type stuff, you are already eliminating many families without putting a rule on who can or can not visit.
I know that kid's clubs and sitters are popular on a lot of vacations, but some of us work a lot, and our vacation time is the one chance to spend unlimited/uninterrupted time with our child/children. It's a nice evening to go to a more adult setting, let your kid order a fancy non alcoholic drink and an "adult" food... I know I used to enjoy it when my parents took us to do the same. It's a break from the hectic atmosphere while still spending QT.
@Bocabear if memory serves me correctly you own a house in KW. We love KW! Most of the restaurants we go to there are not over run with children..I choose them specifically for that reason. We also do Hard Rock bc that is a more family friendly atmosphere and he likes his fish sticks on a guitar shaped plate.
Point being, there can be a balance of atmosphere in lounges/restaurants without the 21+ requirement. I've been to plenty while in WDW during my adult trips. 2015 was the first time I ever dined with characters or in extremely loud restaurants at WDW as an adult.