Gabe1
Ivory Tower Squabble EST 2011. WINDMILL SURVIVOR
I was very concerned about not leaving anyone with the impression that I was forcing an issue. I merely said that I wanted to do this if everyone can agree on a time to do so. We had many group meetings (dinners) together and discussed if there was anything in particular we wanted to do. We all stayed in the same 7 bedroom villa just offsite, had my car plus two rentals available if people wanted to do stuff on different schedules. Some opted to eat a meal at home (it had a full kitchen plus a propane grill in the Florida room with the pool and Jacuzzi) We sometimes went together to the same restaurant and sometimes we went three separate ways. We discussed onsite dining experiences and all settled on the Hoop-Dee-Doo Revue and other then that no one had any specific desires that we would all fit into so we did our thing and met back up later. Maybe it was because of all the preparation it went well. We even knew it was necessary to make sure that everyone knew that they were expected to pitch in if meal prep was called for and subsequent clean up required. Shared general grocery expense with any special wants or requirements paid for by those with the demands. Although that all seems complicated the fact that we discussed all that before we even went made it all work smoothly. Or perhaps I am indeed a great patriarch.
Since that trip we have had another grandchild join our family and about every birthday (she will be 5 in December) they are asking if I'm going to repeat the trip so she can be part of it. I've told them all to keep their calendar clear for the second Tuesday of the fifth week in February. That's when it is going to happen again. However, I did mention that if they would like to include me as a member of a trip that they pay for before that time, I would graciously accept the invite.
Awe. That is very sweet.
The trip that did happened for my inlaw side of the of family to CO minus us (my MIL and FIL took our spot in said condo) did not go well. Knew it would not. We enjoyed Disney though as a individual family unit. It was the last command performance for MIL on demand vacations. Love the relationship you have with your daughters and your grandkids. Asking and input is always a plus. Kudos to you.