It is all very subjective! Even food reviews on this site crack me up. Some people love to say everything is terrible while I can say I have never had a bad meal even at counter service. Costs for food are also subjective.
I would object to paying one price for a Domino's pizza, but gladly put down $29.00 for a large pizza at a local place here in downtown Atlanta called Antico that is amazing. I have had NY pizza and it beats it. I bet people from NY would say no way.
I am often amused how debated costs, etc. are debated on this site, because at the end of the day, it is a vacation-not required by law. Disney vacations are never cheap--a good value--highly debated here.
My advice for everyone-don't read the reviews. Look at the menus, look at the prices-decide what you want to eat. If spending money at WDW upsets you, it is really probably not your ideal vacation spot.
That being said, my family of four have ressies at Via Napoli in June-we are on the counter service plan, so, dropping cash for VN. We know the $48 dollar pizza with a shared app, drinks, tax and tip is going to come close to $80-100 or more. Is it worth it? Actual food costs-no. Experience, atmosphere and good times shared by my family-absolutely!!
And BTW, due to times of year attending and DVC-have never had free dining-always paid-always will-don't regret a dime!